how to get over "friend jealousy?" so i'm in a friend…
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how to get over "friend jealousy?"
so i'm in a friend group of which we've been friends for about 2-3 years, and one of the people in there (we'll call her mariah) has alwaysss wanted the group to meet this boy she really liked (we'll call him dom), fast forward to last month we meet him and we all love him (except one but she already knew about him before the rest of the group did) anyway i probably interacted with him the least so i had nothing to say besides him seeming cool.
fast forward we were lowkey becoming a trio of me, mariah and dom (some stuff happened to make the other people kinda sour on him for a bit) but for some reason i felt..relieved that the whole group didn't like him for a bit ? in general i have issues making close relationships with men specifically, which i told dom and he reassured me he's not evil like the other ones which i liked and made him feel special to me, like i was THE close friend out of the group.
but NOW basically everyone likes him, which i should be happy about but for some reason it kind of upsets me which makes no sense, he was introduced as a group friend, so why am i upset about him being friends with the group...? I guess my question is how can i stop myself from being mad that im not the only one who finds him to be a good friend ? or how can i convince myself that i shouldnt be worried about other people getting possibly closer with him than i am
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so i'm in a friend group of which we've been friends for about 2-3 years, and one of the people in there (we'll call her mariah) has alwaysss wanted the group to meet this boy she really liked (we'll call him dom), fast forward to last month we meet him and we all love him (except one but she already knew about him before the rest of the group did) anyway i probably interacted with him the least so i had nothing to say besides him seeming cool.
fast forward we were lowkey becoming a trio of me, mariah and dom (some stuff happened to make the other people kinda sour on him for a bit) but for some reason i felt..relieved that the whole group didn't like him for a bit ? in general i have issues making close relationships with men specifically, which i told dom and he reassured me he's not evil like the other ones which i liked and made him feel special to me, like i was THE close friend out of the group.
but NOW basically everyone likes him, which i should be happy about but for some reason it kind of upsets me which makes no sense, he was introduced as a group friend, so why am i upset about him being friends with the group...? I guess my question is how can i stop myself from being mad that im not the only one who finds him to be a good friend ? or how can i convince myself that i shouldnt be worried about other people getting possibly closer with him than i am
#relationships
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