How do I tell others that have some sort of keeping the…
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How do I tell others that have some sort of keeping the peace circle that I dont judge and have morales and no need to have an identity crisis around me
Out of culture (idk better word) example not the only ones ok : removing headscarf , revealing clothes , getting a relationship , doing good academically but telling others you are not , jealous over another friend
like if they know they are doing this why are they having an identity crisis why would they think a friend will judge them at least if they want to keep it hidden from everyone keep it, but dont tell some and act like the others are stupid and let it affect how they speak and behave with them. As an introvert I dont know how to tell someone to rest assure I am not judging its so obvious you can read their eyes and body language even see them hiding the "vape" you dont have to make it build up this much , how to approach please or they only take people like them seriousely ? but I geniunely want become friends/close
I can understand maybe they are ashamed or worried about making people fall into their own issues and want to be a good role model or trying to stop.. but can't they at least be there when we are talking and not have an identity crisis
please can someone tell their perspective if they are this or why this happens how to stop or should I just speak and friend the other polar side of the person and forget ? My empathy might kill me but if thats the only option how do I differntiate who is actually nice and its normal flow or who does it on purpose and they just dislike me . It is important to me now because just got betrayed and the rest of my college class for the next 2 years if even alive by then all potential friend/bonds mostly like this
#relationships
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Out of culture (idk better word) example not the only ones ok : removing headscarf , revealing clothes , getting a relationship , doing good academically but telling others you are not , jealous over another friend
like if they know they are doing this why are they having an identity crisis why would they think a friend will judge them at least if they want to keep it hidden from everyone keep it, but dont tell some and act like the others are stupid and let it affect how they speak and behave with them. As an introvert I dont know how to tell someone to rest assure I am not judging its so obvious you can read their eyes and body language even see them hiding the "vape" you dont have to make it build up this much , how to approach please or they only take people like them seriousely ? but I geniunely want become friends/close
I can understand maybe they are ashamed or worried about making people fall into their own issues and want to be a good role model or trying to stop.. but can't they at least be there when we are talking and not have an identity crisis
please can someone tell their perspective if they are this or why this happens how to stop or should I just speak and friend the other polar side of the person and forget ? My empathy might kill me but if thats the only option how do I differntiate who is actually nice and its normal flow or who does it on purpose and they just dislike me . It is important to me now because just got betrayed and the rest of my college class for the next 2 years if even alive by then all potential friend/bonds mostly like this
#relationships
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