Need advice from people who found their partner: how not…
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Need advice from people who found their partner: how not to lose hope?
Need advice from people who found their partner: how not to lose hope?
I’d love to get some advice from people who have already found their soulmate, or from anyone who can share their experience.
Lately, I’ve really wanted to find a person I could genuinely give my warmth, care, and attention to. My friends often wonder why I’m single. They say a lot of nice things — that I’m kind, sincere, free of bad habits, and never wish harm on anyone. It sounds like everything is great, but in reality, things work out quite differently.
People tell me to be more open — and I honestly try! But I keep running into guys who expect everything after just a couple of days. I’m not asking to take years to get to know each other, but at least a month so we can build a proper connection! Because of this, it feels like very few people are interested in serious relationships nowadays, and I’m starting to lose hope.
My acquaintances tell me it’s not my fault, but rather that I keep encountering people who just want a "toy." At least I know how to set healthy boundaries and don't fall for that. I’m starting at a new educational institution soon, and I keep wondering: maybe there's a chance to meet someone special there? Though deep down, I'm still afraid that nothing will change.
I really want to understand what to do. Should I change anything about myself? I’d be super grateful for any advice or honest outside perspective!)
#relationships
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Need advice from people who found their partner: how not to lose hope?
I’d love to get some advice from people who have already found their soulmate, or from anyone who can share their experience.
Lately, I’ve really wanted to find a person I could genuinely give my warmth, care, and attention to. My friends often wonder why I’m single. They say a lot of nice things — that I’m kind, sincere, free of bad habits, and never wish harm on anyone. It sounds like everything is great, but in reality, things work out quite differently.
People tell me to be more open — and I honestly try! But I keep running into guys who expect everything after just a couple of days. I’m not asking to take years to get to know each other, but at least a month so we can build a proper connection! Because of this, it feels like very few people are interested in serious relationships nowadays, and I’m starting to lose hope.
My acquaintances tell me it’s not my fault, but rather that I keep encountering people who just want a "toy." At least I know how to set healthy boundaries and don't fall for that. I’m starting at a new educational institution soon, and I keep wondering: maybe there's a chance to meet someone special there? Though deep down, I'm still afraid that nothing will change.
I really want to understand what to do. Should I change anything about myself? I’d be super grateful for any advice or honest outside perspective!)
#relationships
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