my problem is that I can have great interactions and people can love me but they never become "my people" im liked and theres no doubt in my mind that im lacking anything its just that im doing all of the "right" things and im not getting anywhere. Like I can have the people and the social interaction it just never becomes a constant in my life, im always setting things up or making things happen, its hard knowing if I stopped reaching out then id be entirely alone. And im not doing anything bad I have as many flaws and as many strengths as anyone else hell to be confident I think im a pretty good deal so why...?