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#DoOrDie
Sometimes in life we hit a point where there's only one move left. It's literally do or die. There's no plan B, no backup, no second chance. If you do it, everything changes. If you don't, you lose it all. Psychologists call this a high-stakes decision, a moment where your future depends entirely on what you do right now.
This is for everyone who's standing at that edge right now, whether the situation is real or whether you're just imagining what it would feel like. Some people face this when they need to tell someone they love them and they're terrified of rejection. Some face it when they need to quit something toxic but they're scared of being alone. Some face it when they need to start something completely new—a business, a school, a new life—even though they're shaking with fear. Some people haven't faced this yet but they want to think about what they would do if they did.
This is for those who are ready to make their one move, everyone who's scared but trying anyway, and everyone who wants to figure out what they would choose if there was no backup plan. There's no pressure, no shame, and you don't need to have experienced it. Just think, just be honest, just imagine.
💡 You can answer REAL ( something you're actually facing ) or IMAGINED ( something you're thinking about like a movie scene ). Both works.
TASK: Copy and answer. REPHRASE my examples and you’ll be disqualified.
1. What is your cliff edge situation? Name the decision you're facing ( real or imagined ) and what's on both sides.
Example: I'm about to tell my mom I'm gay. On one side is honesty where I can live free. On the other side is her anger and maybe she leaves.
2. If you STEP FORWARD, what do you LEAP TO? If you STEP BACK, what do you FALL INTO? Be specific.
Example: If I step forward, I LEAP TO truth and freedom. If I step back, I FALL INTO hiding and pretending every day.
3. What is the ONE thing you're risking by stepping forward? What is the ONE thing you're protecting by stepping back? Which one hurts more?
Example: I'm risking my mom's love. I'm protecting my safety. Her love hurts more to lose.
4. Write your cliff edge promise: "I STAND at the edge of ( your answer ) and I STEP ( your answer ) because ( your answer )."
Example: I STAND at the edge of telling them I love them and I STEP forward because if I don’t, I'll die inside.
ATTACHMENT: Cliff Edge Silhouette
-On a piece of paper, draw a big rectangle ( poster shape )
-Draw a zigzag line across the middle ( like a mountain edge)
-Draw a small person on the zigzag
-Above the zigzag write (CAPITAL letters): STEP FORWARD ↑ FLY!
-Below the zigzag write (CAPITAL letters): STEP BACK ↓ FALL!
-Write your details in the drawing:
ABOVE “FLY”, Write: "FLY TO: ( Fill in what you fly to (from T2) "
BELOW “FALL”, Write: "FALL TO: (Fill in what you fall into (from T2) "
Bottom part of the rectangle : your cliff edge promise
-Bottom, outside the rectangle:
Rules & Reminders:
- Pink/Grey BADGES ( 5+ marketplace badges) only
- Be subscribed to
- Post on your timeline, not inside this group. Tag #DoOrDie + mention
- Reply here with post link to qualify. NO link / Deleted posts or comments = NO rewards.
- Respect other people’s shares! Keep it kind and from the heart!
- I read submissions one by one, and I understand those copied or rephrased entries. If this happens again, you will be blocked and will no longer be able to participate in any future activities
- Closes at 10 entries .
- Failure to follow any of the given rules may be subject to disqualification or deduction of rewards!
VERY VERY IMPORTANT NOTES FOR THIS ACTIVITY:
BASE REWARD is 300,000 MLX per participant. Duplicate entries won’t be entertained.
1. DISQUALIFICATION
· Posting inside the group.
· Entries out of topic
· NOT subscribed to
· COPIED or REPHRASED entries
· Entries from someone with more than 1 Tangled account
2. DEDUCTIONS
· 30k - Failure to include any or all of the ff: correct tag #DoOrDie and mentions:
· 30k- Failure to copy the exact tasks
· 30k-100k – Failure to answer in complete thought
· 150k - Failure to follow the required correct attachment ( minor mistakes = deductions only )
3. ALL deductions from rule-breakers will be split evenly among participants who followed every rule.
In cases where the deductions are significantly larger and the participants who followed the rules do not exceed half of the capped entries, a portion of the deduction will be allocated to standout entries or well-prepared attachment. Meanwhile, those who complied with the rules will also receive their share.
Sometimes in life we hit a point where there's only one move left. It's literally do or die. There's no plan B, no backup, no second chance. If you do it, everything changes. If you don't, you lose it all. Psychologists call this a high-stakes decision, a moment where your future depends entirely on what you do right now.
This is for everyone who's standing at that edge right now, whether the situation is real or whether you're just imagining what it would feel like. Some people face this when they need to tell someone they love them and they're terrified of rejection. Some face it when they need to quit something toxic but they're scared of being alone. Some face it when they need to start something completely new—a business, a school, a new life—even though they're shaking with fear. Some people haven't faced this yet but they want to think about what they would do if they did.
This is for those who are ready to make their one move, everyone who's scared but trying anyway, and everyone who wants to figure out what they would choose if there was no backup plan. There's no pressure, no shame, and you don't need to have experienced it. Just think, just be honest, just imagine.
💡 You can answer REAL ( something you're actually facing ) or IMAGINED ( something you're thinking about like a movie scene ). Both works.
TASK: Copy and answer. REPHRASE my examples and you’ll be disqualified.
1. What is your cliff edge situation? Name the decision you're facing ( real or imagined ) and what's on both sides.
Example: I'm about to tell my mom I'm gay. On one side is honesty where I can live free. On the other side is her anger and maybe she leaves.
2. If you STEP FORWARD, what do you LEAP TO? If you STEP BACK, what do you FALL INTO? Be specific.
Example: If I step forward, I LEAP TO truth and freedom. If I step back, I FALL INTO hiding and pretending every day.
3. What is the ONE thing you're risking by stepping forward? What is the ONE thing you're protecting by stepping back? Which one hurts more?
Example: I'm risking my mom's love. I'm protecting my safety. Her love hurts more to lose.
4. Write your cliff edge promise: "I STAND at the edge of ( your answer ) and I STEP ( your answer ) because ( your answer )."
Example: I STAND at the edge of telling them I love them and I STEP forward because if I don’t, I'll die inside.
ATTACHMENT: Cliff Edge Silhouette
-On a piece of paper, draw a big rectangle ( poster shape )
-Draw a zigzag line across the middle ( like a mountain edge)
-Draw a small person on the zigzag
-Above the zigzag write (CAPITAL letters): STEP FORWARD ↑ FLY!
-Below the zigzag write (CAPITAL letters): STEP BACK ↓ FALL!
-Write your details in the drawing:
ABOVE “FLY”, Write: "FLY TO: ( Fill in what you fly to (from T2) "
BELOW “FALL”, Write: "FALL TO: (Fill in what you fall into (from T2) "
Bottom part of the rectangle : your cliff edge promise
-Bottom, outside the rectangle:
Rules & Reminders:
- Pink/Grey BADGES ( 5+ marketplace badges) only
- Be subscribed to
- Post on your timeline, not inside this group. Tag #DoOrDie + mention
- Reply here with post link to qualify. NO link / Deleted posts or comments = NO rewards.
- Respect other people’s shares! Keep it kind and from the heart!
- I read submissions one by one, and I understand those copied or rephrased entries. If this happens again, you will be blocked and will no longer be able to participate in any future activities
- Closes at 10 entries .
- Failure to follow any of the given rules may be subject to disqualification or deduction of rewards!
VERY VERY IMPORTANT NOTES FOR THIS ACTIVITY:
BASE REWARD is 300,000 MLX per participant. Duplicate entries won’t be entertained.
1. DISQUALIFICATION
· Posting inside the group.
· Entries out of topic
· NOT subscribed to
· COPIED or REPHRASED entries
· Entries from someone with more than 1 Tangled account
2. DEDUCTIONS
· 30k - Failure to include any or all of the ff: correct tag #DoOrDie and mentions:
· 30k- Failure to copy the exact tasks
· 30k-100k – Failure to answer in complete thought
· 150k - Failure to follow the required correct attachment ( minor mistakes = deductions only )
3. ALL deductions from rule-breakers will be split evenly among participants who followed every rule.
In cases where the deductions are significantly larger and the participants who followed the rules do not exceed half of the capped entries, a portion of the deduction will be allocated to standout entries or well-prepared attachment. Meanwhile, those who complied with the rules will also receive their share.
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#OnTheWrongSide
Welcome to #OnTheWrongSide , an activity to share when you were completely wrong. No one is perfect. Everyone makes mistakes. Everyone has been on the wrong side of something. Everyone has believed something false. Everyone has said something that hurt. Everyone has realized they were wrong. And that moment of realizing it can feel heavy. It can feel embarrassing. It can feel like failure. But psychologists say admitting you were wrong is actually one of the strongest things you can do. It shows courage. It shows growth. It shows you're human.
This is for everyone who's ever been on the wrong side of something and found out. Everyone who's ever had to say I was wrong and did it anyway. Everyone who's learned something huge from being wrong and became better. No pressure, no shame. Being wrong is normal. Saying you were wrong is brave. Growing from it is powerful.
TASK: Copy and answer
1. No one is perfect, everyone makes mistakes. Share a time where you experienced being on the wrong side. What situation was it?
2. How did you react when you were on the wrong side? What did you do or say at that moment? How did you feel after realizing you were wrong? Name the emotions. What was in your heart?
3. What did you do after you realized you were wrong? Did you admit it? Change? Learn something? What's the next thing you did?
MANDATORY: It's not part of this activity to mention anyone or use your default mention for fellow Tanglers—whoever you mention won't be able to read your comment within 72 hours anyway, so STOP that. Anyone who does will incur a 100k DEDUCTION. TRY ME.
Also, anyone who has a deleted comment (even if you comment again) will not be rewarded.
ATTACHMENT:
-On a piece of paper, draw a big light bulb shape ( oval + rectangle base )
-Split the bulb in half horizontally ( top and bottom )
- TOP half (dark): draw jagged lines like flickering ✗✗✗ + write GUILTY AND ASHAMED
-Draw a down arrow ▼ in the middle
- BOTTOM half (bright): draw rays like shining light ★★★ + write BE HUMBLE AND ACCEPT BEING AT FAULT
-Bottom of the drawing: " Being wrong is just the flicker before the light — it's the moment darkness turns to clarity and I finally see what I couldn't before ."
Rules & Reminders:
- Pink/Grey BADGES (5+ marketplace badges) only
- Be subscribed to
- COMMENT your answer below with tag #OnTheWrongSide + mention
- I read submissions one by one, and I understand those copied or rephrased entries. If this happens again, you will be blocked and will no longer be able to participate in any future activities
- Closes at 10 entries.
- Failure to follow any of the given rules may be subject to disqualification or deduction of rewards!
VERY VERY IMPORTANT NOTES FOR THIS ACTIVITY:
BASE REWARD is 300,000 MLX per participant. Duplicate entries won’t be entertained .
***I set the comments to be visible only after 72 hours. This activity will officially close once the comments are made public. This approach is intended to be fair to those who participate early. I typically provide feedback on each entry, detailing any deductions. However, I've noticed that some participants submit their entries after the comments are visible, which allows them to benefit from insights that others may have missed. This policy aims to ensure a level playing field for all participants.***
1. DISQUALIFICATION
• Posting inside the group/Commenting the link to a post
• Entries out of topic
• NOT subscribed to
• COPIED or REPHRASED entries
• Entries from someone with more than 1 Tangled account
2. DEDUCTIONS
• 30k - Failure to include any or all of the ff: correct tag #OnTheWrongSide and mentions:
• 30k-100k - Failure to follow the task format and explain in complete thought
• 30k – Failure to include the additional statement
• 150k - Failure to follow the required correct attachment ( minor mistakes = deductions only )
3. ALL deductions from rule-breakers will be split evenly among participants who followed every rule.
In cases where the deductions are significantly larger and the participants who followed the rules do not exceed half of the capped entries, a portion of the deduction will be allocated to standout entries. Meanwhile, those who complied with the rules will also receive their share.
Welcome to #OnTheWrongSide , an activity to share when you were completely wrong. No one is perfect. Everyone makes mistakes. Everyone has been on the wrong side of something. Everyone has believed something false. Everyone has said something that hurt. Everyone has realized they were wrong. And that moment of realizing it can feel heavy. It can feel embarrassing. It can feel like failure. But psychologists say admitting you were wrong is actually one of the strongest things you can do. It shows courage. It shows growth. It shows you're human.
This is for everyone who's ever been on the wrong side of something and found out. Everyone who's ever had to say I was wrong and did it anyway. Everyone who's learned something huge from being wrong and became better. No pressure, no shame. Being wrong is normal. Saying you were wrong is brave. Growing from it is powerful.
TASK: Copy and answer
1. No one is perfect, everyone makes mistakes. Share a time where you experienced being on the wrong side. What situation was it?
2. How did you react when you were on the wrong side? What did you do or say at that moment? How did you feel after realizing you were wrong? Name the emotions. What was in your heart?
3. What did you do after you realized you were wrong? Did you admit it? Change? Learn something? What's the next thing you did?
MANDATORY: It's not part of this activity to mention anyone or use your default mention for fellow Tanglers—whoever you mention won't be able to read your comment within 72 hours anyway, so STOP that. Anyone who does will incur a 100k DEDUCTION. TRY ME.
Also, anyone who has a deleted comment (even if you comment again) will not be rewarded.
ATTACHMENT:
-On a piece of paper, draw a big light bulb shape ( oval + rectangle base )
-Split the bulb in half horizontally ( top and bottom )
- TOP half (dark): draw jagged lines like flickering ✗✗✗ + write GUILTY AND ASHAMED
-Draw a down arrow ▼ in the middle
- BOTTOM half (bright): draw rays like shining light ★★★ + write BE HUMBLE AND ACCEPT BEING AT FAULT
-Bottom of the drawing: " Being wrong is just the flicker before the light — it's the moment darkness turns to clarity and I finally see what I couldn't before ."
Rules & Reminders:
- Pink/Grey BADGES (5+ marketplace badges) only
- Be subscribed to
- COMMENT your answer below with tag #OnTheWrongSide + mention
- I read submissions one by one, and I understand those copied or rephrased entries. If this happens again, you will be blocked and will no longer be able to participate in any future activities
- Closes at 10 entries.
- Failure to follow any of the given rules may be subject to disqualification or deduction of rewards!
VERY VERY IMPORTANT NOTES FOR THIS ACTIVITY:
BASE REWARD is 300,000 MLX per participant. Duplicate entries won’t be entertained .
***I set the comments to be visible only after 72 hours. This activity will officially close once the comments are made public. This approach is intended to be fair to those who participate early. I typically provide feedback on each entry, detailing any deductions. However, I've noticed that some participants submit their entries after the comments are visible, which allows them to benefit from insights that others may have missed. This policy aims to ensure a level playing field for all participants.***
1. DISQUALIFICATION
• Posting inside the group/Commenting the link to a post
• Entries out of topic
• NOT subscribed to
• COPIED or REPHRASED entries
• Entries from someone with more than 1 Tangled account
2. DEDUCTIONS
• 30k - Failure to include any or all of the ff: correct tag #OnTheWrongSide and mentions:
• 30k-100k - Failure to follow the task format and explain in complete thought
• 30k – Failure to include the additional statement
• 150k - Failure to follow the required correct attachment ( minor mistakes = deductions only )
3. ALL deductions from rule-breakers will be split evenly among participants who followed every rule.
In cases where the deductions are significantly larger and the participants who followed the rules do not exceed half of the capped entries, a portion of the deduction will be allocated to standout entries. Meanwhile, those who complied with the rules will also receive their share.
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#HeartOverHurt
Someone hurt you. They wronged you. Now what?
Do you forgive them — acknowledge the hurt, choose to release the anger, still remember but let them off the debt?
Or do you forget them — don’t dwell on it, let it fade naturally, move forward without carrying the weight?
This activity asks you to choose: When someone wrongs you, will you have a forgiving heart or a forgetful heart?
Neither is better. Both heal. Both are valid. But which one are YOU?
TASK: Copy and answer
1. When someone wrongs you deeply ( like betrayal, lying, or cheating ), do you feel drawn to FORGIVE ( actively release it ) or FORGET ( let it fade )? What’s your gut reaction?
2. Think of a time someone hurt you. Did you end up forgiving them OR forgetting it? What happened? Did it heal you?
3. What’s ONE thing you believe you SHOULD forgive but actually can’t forget? Explain.
4. What’s ONE thing you SHOULD forget but can’t forgive? Explain.
ATTACHMENT: Two Doors, One Choice
-On a piece of paper, draw 2 doors side by side
BLUE Left Door: FORGIVE
RED Right Door: FORGET
-Below 2 doors, draw a square, write “My path” inside
-Draw an arrow from each door to that square
-Encircle the door of your choice
-Bottom: “ Hurt came, I chose, and my heart heals my way. ”
Rules & Reminders:
- Pink/Grey BADGES ( 5+ marketplace badges) only
- Be subscribed to
- Post on your timeline, not inside this group. Tag #HeartAfterHurt + mention
- Reply here with post link to qualify. NO link / Deleted posts or comments = NO rewards.
- Respect other people’s shares! Keep it kind and from the heart!
- I read submissions one by one, and I understand those copied or rephrased entries. If this happens again, you will be blocked and will no longer be able to participate in any future activities
- Closes at 10 entries .
- Failure to follow any of the given rules may be subject to disqualification or deduction of rewards!
VERY VERY IMPORTANT NOTES FOR THIS ACTIVITY:
BASE REWARD is 300,000 MLX per participant. Duplicate entries won’t be entertained.
1. DISQUALIFICATION
· Posting inside the group.
· Entries out of topic
· NOT subscribed to
· COPIED or REPHRASED entries
· Entries from someone with more than 1 Tangled account
2. DEDUCTIONS
· 30k - Failure to include any or all of the ff: correct tag #HeartAfterHurt and mentions:
· 30k- Failure to copy the exact tasks
· 30k-100k – Failure to answer in complete thought
· 150k - Failure to follow the required correct attachment ( minor mistakes = deductions only )
3. ALL deductions from rule-breakers will be split evenly among participants who followed every rule.
In cases where the deductions are significantly larger and the participants who followed the rules do not exceed half of the capped entries, a portion of the deduction will be allocated to standout entries or well-prepared attachment. Meanwhile, those who complied with the rules will also receive their share.
Someone hurt you. They wronged you. Now what?
Do you forgive them — acknowledge the hurt, choose to release the anger, still remember but let them off the debt?
Or do you forget them — don’t dwell on it, let it fade naturally, move forward without carrying the weight?
This activity asks you to choose: When someone wrongs you, will you have a forgiving heart or a forgetful heart?
Neither is better. Both heal. Both are valid. But which one are YOU?
TASK: Copy and answer
1. When someone wrongs you deeply ( like betrayal, lying, or cheating ), do you feel drawn to FORGIVE ( actively release it ) or FORGET ( let it fade )? What’s your gut reaction?
2. Think of a time someone hurt you. Did you end up forgiving them OR forgetting it? What happened? Did it heal you?
3. What’s ONE thing you believe you SHOULD forgive but actually can’t forget? Explain.
4. What’s ONE thing you SHOULD forget but can’t forgive? Explain.
ATTACHMENT: Two Doors, One Choice
-On a piece of paper, draw 2 doors side by side
BLUE Left Door: FORGIVE
RED Right Door: FORGET
-Below 2 doors, draw a square, write “My path” inside
-Draw an arrow from each door to that square
-Encircle the door of your choice
-Bottom: “ Hurt came, I chose, and my heart heals my way. ”
Rules & Reminders:
- Pink/Grey BADGES ( 5+ marketplace badges) only
- Be subscribed to
- Post on your timeline, not inside this group. Tag #HeartAfterHurt + mention
- Reply here with post link to qualify. NO link / Deleted posts or comments = NO rewards.
- Respect other people’s shares! Keep it kind and from the heart!
- I read submissions one by one, and I understand those copied or rephrased entries. If this happens again, you will be blocked and will no longer be able to participate in any future activities
- Closes at 10 entries .
- Failure to follow any of the given rules may be subject to disqualification or deduction of rewards!
VERY VERY IMPORTANT NOTES FOR THIS ACTIVITY:
BASE REWARD is 300,000 MLX per participant. Duplicate entries won’t be entertained.
1. DISQUALIFICATION
· Posting inside the group.
· Entries out of topic
· NOT subscribed to
· COPIED or REPHRASED entries
· Entries from someone with more than 1 Tangled account
2. DEDUCTIONS
· 30k - Failure to include any or all of the ff: correct tag #HeartAfterHurt and mentions:
· 30k- Failure to copy the exact tasks
· 30k-100k – Failure to answer in complete thought
· 150k - Failure to follow the required correct attachment ( minor mistakes = deductions only )
3. ALL deductions from rule-breakers will be split evenly among participants who followed every rule.
In cases where the deductions are significantly larger and the participants who followed the rules do not exceed half of the capped entries, a portion of the deduction will be allocated to standout entries or well-prepared attachment. Meanwhile, those who complied with the rules will also receive their share.
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