Dealbreaker or not? For me, age difference is never an immediate dealbreaker, but the bigger the difference, the more understanding and patience you need. A small difference is easily manageable, but 10 years or more? Then both of you really need to understand each other's rhythms of life.
To what extent? I think that a difference of 3-8 years is often smooth, if it is more, it takes extra effort to maintain it. In fact, the problem is not the number, but understanding and compatibility.
Younger or older? The classic idea is that the man should be older, but nowadays the situation can also be reversed. The main thing is that both of you should match each other's energy, ambitions and lifestyle.
A practical tip: Don't make the age difference a romantic notion. Conversation is important! Discuss the big topics of life like marriage timing, career goals, children. Often differences arise from where the difference was not even noticed. 🌱
Mini bonus thought: Age difference sometimes adds flavor to a relationship, but honesty and respect are always essential on both sides. ✨