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#InLawInvasion
When you commit to a person, you’re often told you’re “Marrying the whole family." But does that mean the family gets a key to your private life? For some, in-laws are a vital support system that provides wisdom and help. For others, it feels like an #InLawInvasion where boundaries are crossed, and every decision is critiqued. The big question is: where does the family end and your relationship begin? This activity is about deciding who holds the power in your household and whether you agree that in-laws should ever have a "say" in your business.
The Task: Define the Boundary
Tell us your straight stand on in-law involvement.
1. Do you agree or disagree that in-laws should have a say in your relationship?
2. Up to what point is their advice welcome? ( For example: only if asked, only about the kids, or never?)
3. What is your "Absolute No" when it comes to an in-law crossing the line?
4. If your partner won't set a boundary with their parents, is that a dealbreaker for you?
The Attachment: The "Gatekeeper" Sketch
To represent your boundaries, you’re going to draw a "Relationship Gate."
Draw and Color: FENCE = GREEN while GATE = RED
1. Draw a simple Fence or Wall across the middle of the paper.
2. On one side of the fence, write " US ". On the other side, write " THEM ".
3. Draw a Gate in the middle of the fence.
4. The "Pass": Above the gate, write the one thing that allows them to give advice ( ex: Respect, Wisdom, or Emergency only ).
5. The "Lock": Below the gate, write the one thing that locks them out completely ( ex: Disrespect, Unannounced visits, or financial control ).
6. At the bottom, write
Rules & Reminders:
- Pink/Grey BADGES ( 5+ marketplace badges) only
- Be subscribed to
- Post on your timeline, not inside this group. Tag #InLawInvasion + mention
- Reply here with post link to qualify. NO link / Deleted posts or comments = NO rewards.
- Respect other people’s shares! Keep it kind and from the heart!
- I read submissions one by one, and I understand those copied or rephrased entries. If this happens again, you will be blocked and will no longer be able to participate in any future activities
- Closes at 10 entries .
- Failure to follow any of the given rules may be subject to disqualification or deduction of rewards!
VERY VERY IMPORTANT NOTES FOR THIS ACTIVITY:
BASE REWARD is 300,000 MLX per participant. Duplicate entries won’t be entertained.
1. DISQUALIFICATION
· Posting inside the group.
· Entries out of topic
· NOT subscribed to
· COPIED or REPHRASED entries
· Entries from someone with more than 1 Tangled account
2. DEDUCTIONS
· 30k - Failure to include any or all of the ff: correct tag #InLawInvasion and mentions:
· 30k-100k - Failure to explain in complete thought
· 100k - Failure to follow the required correct attachment ( minor mistakes = deductions only )
3. ALL deductions from rule-breakers will be split evenly among participants who followed every rule.
In cases where the deductions are significantly larger and the participants who followed the rules do not exceed half of the capped entries, a portion of the deduction will be allocated to standout entries. Meanwhile, those who complied with the rules will also receive their share.
When you commit to a person, you’re often told you’re “Marrying the whole family." But does that mean the family gets a key to your private life? For some, in-laws are a vital support system that provides wisdom and help. For others, it feels like an #InLawInvasion where boundaries are crossed, and every decision is critiqued. The big question is: where does the family end and your relationship begin? This activity is about deciding who holds the power in your household and whether you agree that in-laws should ever have a "say" in your business.
The Task: Define the Boundary
Tell us your straight stand on in-law involvement.
1. Do you agree or disagree that in-laws should have a say in your relationship?
2. Up to what point is their advice welcome? ( For example: only if asked, only about the kids, or never?)
3. What is your "Absolute No" when it comes to an in-law crossing the line?
4. If your partner won't set a boundary with their parents, is that a dealbreaker for you?
The Attachment: The "Gatekeeper" Sketch
To represent your boundaries, you’re going to draw a "Relationship Gate."
Draw and Color: FENCE = GREEN while GATE = RED
1. Draw a simple Fence or Wall across the middle of the paper.
2. On one side of the fence, write " US ". On the other side, write " THEM ".
3. Draw a Gate in the middle of the fence.
4. The "Pass": Above the gate, write the one thing that allows them to give advice ( ex: Respect, Wisdom, or Emergency only ).
5. The "Lock": Below the gate, write the one thing that locks them out completely ( ex: Disrespect, Unannounced visits, or financial control ).
6. At the bottom, write
Rules & Reminders:
- Pink/Grey BADGES ( 5+ marketplace badges) only
- Be subscribed to
- Post on your timeline, not inside this group. Tag #InLawInvasion + mention
- Reply here with post link to qualify. NO link / Deleted posts or comments = NO rewards.
- Respect other people’s shares! Keep it kind and from the heart!
- I read submissions one by one, and I understand those copied or rephrased entries. If this happens again, you will be blocked and will no longer be able to participate in any future activities
- Closes at 10 entries .
- Failure to follow any of the given rules may be subject to disqualification or deduction of rewards!
VERY VERY IMPORTANT NOTES FOR THIS ACTIVITY:
BASE REWARD is 300,000 MLX per participant. Duplicate entries won’t be entertained.
1. DISQUALIFICATION
· Posting inside the group.
· Entries out of topic
· NOT subscribed to
· COPIED or REPHRASED entries
· Entries from someone with more than 1 Tangled account
2. DEDUCTIONS
· 30k - Failure to include any or all of the ff: correct tag #InLawInvasion and mentions:
· 30k-100k - Failure to explain in complete thought
· 100k - Failure to follow the required correct attachment ( minor mistakes = deductions only )
3. ALL deductions from rule-breakers will be split evenly among participants who followed every rule.
In cases where the deductions are significantly larger and the participants who followed the rules do not exceed half of the capped entries, a portion of the deduction will be allocated to standout entries. Meanwhile, those who complied with the rules will also receive their share.
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ACTIVITY CLOSED!
Unfortunately, I did not receive any new entries for this activity, and I won’t be able to extend it further. However, I want to ensure that the two participants who dedicated their time and effort will feel my love and appreciation.
Thank you both so much for your contributions. Please know that I appreciate you!
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If this isn’t rewarded by
TOTAL PAYOUT: 2,500,000 mlx
Unfortunately, I did not receive any new entries for this activity, and I won’t be able to extend it further. However, I want to ensure that the two participants who dedicated their time and effort will feel my love and appreciation.
Thank you both so much for your contributions. Please know that I appreciate you!
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•
If this isn’t rewarded by
TOTAL PAYOUT: 2,500,000 mlx
