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G morning
I just saw the post of
ugly social standards to consider judging a bad thing.
If you don't judge people it means you simply don't care about people and you let anyone get into your circle and life.
You won't even know if he/she is good or bad till you get surprising attitudes or acts.
Everyone here should know that I judge you and everyone and everything even a small breeze of air on my face.
Be selective , be wise and be tolerant. That's how to build a healthy environment and protect yourself and #family .
This is how it should be done , think and act .
#learn #lifestyle #social #ethics
I just saw the post of
ugly social standards to consider judging a bad thing.
If you don't judge people it means you simply don't care about people and you let anyone get into your circle and life.
You won't even know if he/she is good or bad till you get surprising attitudes or acts.
Everyone here should know that I judge you and everyone and everything even a small breeze of air on my face.
Be selective , be wise and be tolerant. That's how to build a healthy environment and protect yourself and #family .
This is how it should be done , think and act .
#learn #lifestyle #social #ethics
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if you display yourself into the public, that is an inherent agony allowing their eyes to participate/judge you in your life. (Specially small minds they'd love to talk people's life most of the time) However, if you are a civilized person you can limit your actions. I was once lived in areas filled with wealthy people for 6 years, at morning I leave the house to work and get back 2-3 days after, and that you will see no one is asking you how are you, how you've been, technically they will just smile at you., hi, hello and that's it and that they don't even bother to know even a little of me, and so I did the same, until i found out, when i was leaving i have learned that my neighbors were Doctors. Later I was re-assigned into different places and need to leave that house. Well the point is, simple, we are in era where people are so busy with their own personal matters we are in the era of Who you ? and I don't care about you (IDC), not unless you cut your hands in public and the public will come to you. I mean, life is so simple if you do not like to compromise your privacy, then do not give that key nor the door be open left, to let the strangers come into your life.
But if you like a complicated life then suffer the consequences of becoming a "public property". In which your personal private life is being at risk simply for breach of security. So at the end of the day, it's the author who can else's decide whatever she/he likes to write in her own pages to filled his/her own book.
Cococccoooooooonut....Now a days people are so busy, Doctors wake up to cure their client, laborers work for them to survive, Teacher teach, traders trade, farmers plant and content creators do content reasons personally to them either for popularity or for profit same way Business man do their business and etc.
This means that, the world doesn't just revolve around you alone everyone else has their own purpose to live, to survive and to grow, and that no people, will buy someone's crap with their precious time, just to pathetically meddle with your day to day activities. Times run so fast., make it worthy.
But if you like a complicated life then suffer the consequences of becoming a "public property". In which your personal private life is being at risk simply for breach of security. So at the end of the day, it's the author who can else's decide whatever she/he likes to write in her own pages to filled his/her own book.
Cococccoooooooonut....Now a days people are so busy, Doctors wake up to cure their client, laborers work for them to survive, Teacher teach, traders trade, farmers plant and content creators do content reasons personally to them either for popularity or for profit same way Business man do their business and etc.
This means that, the world doesn't just revolve around you alone everyone else has their own purpose to live, to survive and to grow, and that no people, will buy someone's crap with their precious time, just to pathetically meddle with your day to day activities. Times run so fast., make it worthy.
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G morning
You are describing the actual "social" behavior as it is, I like it.
High hesitation to describe it as "social" , bcze it's more obviously individual behavior inside a "society"...
even "society" is not a good name for what we are having, it's more like separated Individuals ( even within family) stuck in same places sharing time and interests.
Actually, there's no precious time or worthless time , time is flowing as it is like a river with debris, once theyget on edges or out out the stream they fade (what we call life ) ... we just added it to the material consciousness that we created... And we miss use it.
All of what exists in the current era is almost the opposite of what we knew as kids.
It's true, what you described is everywhere, became contagious and new standards for "civilisation". Doesn't mean it's correct and ethical.
Combined with the materialist lifestyle worldwide, the injected wrong values , and the toxicity of laws and oriented anti societies programming.. we have what we have today.
And still , judgements are there, but hidden and often twisted... On daily basis, hundreds times per day.
It's before my first espresso 🥴 more after if you want to coconut
You are describing the actual "social" behavior as it is, I like it.
High hesitation to describe it as "social" , bcze it's more obviously individual behavior inside a "society"...
even "society" is not a good name for what we are having, it's more like separated Individuals ( even within family) stuck in same places sharing time and interests.
Actually, there's no precious time or worthless time , time is flowing as it is like a river with debris, once theyget on edges or out out the stream they fade (what we call life ) ... we just added it to the material consciousness that we created... And we miss use it.
All of what exists in the current era is almost the opposite of what we knew as kids.
It's true, what you described is everywhere, became contagious and new standards for "civilisation". Doesn't mean it's correct and ethical.
Combined with the materialist lifestyle worldwide, the injected wrong values , and the toxicity of laws and oriented anti societies programming.. we have what we have today.
And still , judgements are there, but hidden and often twisted... On daily basis, hundreds times per day.
It's before my first espresso 🥴 more after if you want to coconut
I really don't get it why people have to mention things about 'silence"in public loudly? 🙄
It's the complete opposite i guess. But don't get me wrong. This comment does not intend to hurt anyone who can read it. Besides, we share the same freedom to speak our own thoughts about anything..😊
It's the complete opposite i guess. But don't get me wrong. This comment does not intend to hurt anyone who can read it. Besides, we share the same freedom to speak our own thoughts about anything..😊
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Hello there, it's not about silence or the decision/ choice of
And of course freedom of speech is good (with limits of course ) and welcome always.
And of course freedom of speech is good (with limits of course ) and welcome always.
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Yes i know. I just saw it included in the post that's why i added it on the conversation just to see what we can do or say about it. I believe that a certain topic when brought up and discussed in a healthy manner like this can make it more informative and sensible unlike the other way around.
You made a good point on your perspective and i respect you both for sharing it to us regardless of the love and hate comments you can get from it.
You made a good point on your perspective and i respect you both for sharing it to us regardless of the love and hate comments you can get from it.
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thank you and i appreciate your positive attitude. i want to clarify a bit though.
there's absolutely no intention to discuss her post here or offend her in any kind of way , absolutely not.
she is respectful woman and i respect her privacy and opinions, like everyone else in virtual wolrd or real one ( both are the faces of same world ... another hot topic lool).
sad how the entire thing went in wrong direction for a while.
honestly, i expected more negative than positive responses, and also the post to be ignored. but here we are , it made some vibes 😀 . am glad for whatever comes , interactions will be positive with + or - attitudes (both are + for me ).
the goal is to shake some feelings lool
there's absolutely no intention to discuss her post here or offend her in any kind of way , absolutely not.
she is respectful woman and i respect her privacy and opinions, like everyone else in virtual wolrd or real one ( both are the faces of same world ... another hot topic lool).
sad how the entire thing went in wrong direction for a while.
honestly, i expected more negative than positive responses, and also the post to be ignored. but here we are , it made some vibes 😀 . am glad for whatever comes , interactions will be positive with + or - attitudes (both are + for me ).
the goal is to shake some feelings lool
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My friend you speak with wisdom and insight! Judgment is a key element in discernment.
This is not to poke fun at what other people are lacking.
Others can live whatever way they want.
But it is wonderful to be a catalyst for growth, change, and development!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on the public matter 😊
This is not to poke fun at what other people are lacking.
Others can live whatever way they want.
But it is wonderful to be a catalyst for growth, change, and development!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on the public matter 😊
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thank you , i noticed since couple years that it's becoming taboo to aboard it. and everywhere people repeating "don't judge me" , kind of asking to become no body ( not the movie)
am glad you noticed it , and honored you already know its imprtance.
thanks a lot for the big tip though, very appreciated 🤝
by the way, people who don't like to judge and be judged , have already / will soon judge me , cool irony 😎
am glad you noticed it , and honored you already know its imprtance.
thanks a lot for the big tip though, very appreciated 🤝
by the way, people who don't like to judge and be judged , have already / will soon judge me , cool irony 😎
For me Reasoning is the Golden principal.
You cannot Reason without Judgment.
That would be irrational!
Your comment's are right, for the eyes without judgment will be cast upon you!
But I would say everyone has a responsibility to themselves to focus and restrain their judgment as well.
There is a certain serenity one gains from not knowing, not caring, not thinking, not being.
I would say let be those who wish to fade into the void of their own inner workings!
To draw someone out of their own wonderland, dreamland, or la la land should be the responsibility of loved ones.
Friends, family, lovers...
Going back to what I said about being a catalyst...
That's fine.. but it doesn't help much to tell people how to live their lives. it's better to give them the tools that will allow them to empower themselves so as to live life however they want!
People want to create imaginary boundaries around themselves. They believe in it and to me that feels kind of magical even if it's nonsense and not real haha!
Exploring the edge along any boundary really adds some color and flavor to life haha! 😆
You cannot Reason without Judgment.
That would be irrational!
Your comment's are right, for the eyes without judgment will be cast upon you!
But I would say everyone has a responsibility to themselves to focus and restrain their judgment as well.
There is a certain serenity one gains from not knowing, not caring, not thinking, not being.
I would say let be those who wish to fade into the void of their own inner workings!
To draw someone out of their own wonderland, dreamland, or la la land should be the responsibility of loved ones.
Friends, family, lovers...
Going back to what I said about being a catalyst...
That's fine.. but it doesn't help much to tell people how to live their lives. it's better to give them the tools that will allow them to empower themselves so as to live life however they want!
People want to create imaginary boundaries around themselves. They believe in it and to me that feels kind of magical even if it's nonsense and not real haha!
Exploring the edge along any boundary really adds some color and flavor to life haha! 😆
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Hello again 👋
You are right 😁.
Comfort zone is necessary , regardless its nature or purpose. And I think it depends of resilience.
Wasn't trying to push anyone to change how they deal with their lives , I want more to clarify things and remove the mist on certain topics (I admit , Sometimes I use harsh way, like shockwaves, sometimes necessary).
One on many good sides of being social is to merge into the Mozaïc of cultures and communities , to share points of view, stories, experiences.. build the base.
Was lucky though .. wasnt arrested with drug dealers when they were caught, or thieves...
All of it helped me already to create my own comfort zone, like a refuge, and it's chaotic crazy shell 😅
I woke up few min ago, if I missed something I'll check it again after espresso lol )
You are right 😁.
Comfort zone is necessary , regardless its nature or purpose. And I think it depends of resilience.
Wasn't trying to push anyone to change how they deal with their lives , I want more to clarify things and remove the mist on certain topics (I admit , Sometimes I use harsh way, like shockwaves, sometimes necessary).
One on many good sides of being social is to merge into the Mozaïc of cultures and communities , to share points of view, stories, experiences.. build the base.
Was lucky though .. wasnt arrested with drug dealers when they were caught, or thieves...
All of it helped me already to create my own comfort zone, like a refuge, and it's chaotic crazy shell 😅
I woke up few min ago, if I missed something I'll check it again after espresso lol )
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To Be Very Honest, you know what bro, I try to keep safe distance from people who judge me even when they don't know my story. Recently someone let me know that I'm a fraud and I laugh on that because when he judge me like that, I wish I could show him his own image on the mirror. Judging is easy but correcting ourselves or oneself is difficult. I prefer working on my self improvements instead correcting others and judging others. People who don't even know me, judge me saying these ---- fraud, femcel, worst, bitch and so on.
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unfortunately i saw some of it here on tangled and wasn't pleasant.
here is something you should know ...
there's huge difference between judging (based on understanding and comparing to /with previous knowledge and eperiences ...) and misunderstanding ( leads in general to shallow vague fast reactions without deep knowledge, based on what appears on surface / one visible side).
both can lead to mistakes , depends of how you absorb it
by the way , people around me see me in very negative way , bcze am different, and you are different.
here is something you should know ...
there's huge difference between judging (based on understanding and comparing to /with previous knowledge and eperiences ...) and misunderstanding ( leads in general to shallow vague fast reactions without deep knowledge, based on what appears on surface / one visible side).
both can lead to mistakes , depends of how you absorb it
by the way , people around me see me in very negative way , bcze am different, and you are different.
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Good morning! 😊
I understand your perspective on being careful and protecting your space, but judgment can easily cross into misunderstanding if we don’t balance it with empathy and openness. Being selective is important, but so is giving people a fair chance to show who they are over time. 🌿✨
I understand your perspective on being careful and protecting your space, but judgment can easily cross into misunderstanding if we don’t balance it with empathy and openness. Being selective is important, but so is giving people a fair chance to show who they are over time. 🌿✨
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bjr Sylvie
thank you. i agree with your points and i wanna add something on it.
we can't judge without knowledge, right ?
and we can't know something/someone if we don't check all of its sides. because if you see one side , any decision will be missing credibility.
and yes time is very important of course.
thank you. i agree with your points and i wanna add something on it.
we can't judge without knowledge, right ?
and we can't know something/someone if we don't check all of its sides. because if you see one side , any decision will be missing credibility.
and yes time is very important of course.
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Are you okay?
Or did you woke up the wrong side of your bed?
I don't know what button did I push to trigger you to post and repost like this🤔
The shoe is for Cinderella, not for you, but if you wanna wear it and it fits then wear it✌️😁 why so serious?!🤔✌️✌️✌️peace yow
I'm not trying to be loud, angry, or start fights with anyone. For me, silence is a smart strategy, and it's how I hold people accountable for the energy they bring around me.
If they treat me with respect, they get respect right back. If they ignore or dismiss me, they get the cold shoulder. And if they bring nothing but drama and chaos, I will completely and silently remove them from my life. I won't waste my energy on things and people I don't care about.
Anyways, thanks but not doing it.
My life, my rule.
#human diversity
Or did you woke up the wrong side of your bed?
I don't know what button did I push to trigger you to post and repost like this🤔
The shoe is for Cinderella, not for you, but if you wanna wear it and it fits then wear it✌️😁 why so serious?!🤔✌️✌️✌️peace yow
I'm not trying to be loud, angry, or start fights with anyone. For me, silence is a smart strategy, and it's how I hold people accountable for the energy they bring around me.
If they treat me with respect, they get respect right back. If they ignore or dismiss me, they get the cold shoulder. And if they bring nothing but drama and chaos, I will completely and silently remove them from my life. I won't waste my energy on things and people I don't care about.
Anyways, thanks but not doing it.
My life, my rule.
#human diversity
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you didn't, the judgement point did "it brought something very important to the surface : #judgement "
shoes of Cinderella !! really ?
you are welcome and you do it your way of course, i wish you the best always.
shoes of Cinderella !! really ?
you are welcome and you do it your way of course, i wish you the best always.