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#TwiceIsTooMuch
“Twice is too much.”
You might be wondering: “ Wait, isn’t ‘once is enough’ the rule? ”
Yes! Once is enough to know something’s wrong. But sometimes, we give people one chance to fix it. One chance to apologize. One chance to change. One chance to show us they care.
But when it happens again? Twice is too much.
Here’s what that means:
One mistake = you can forgive and teach
Two mistakes = they’re showing you their pattern
One hurt = you can heal together
Two hurts = they’re not trying to change
One boundary crossed = you can remind them
Two boundaries crossed = they don’t respect you
This doesn’t mean you’re harsh . It means you’re wise . You’re learning to see patterns , not just single moments. You’re protecting yourself from repeated pain .
Psychologists call this “behavioral repetition.” When someone does something twice, it shows:
It’s not an accident. They’re not trying to change. They accept the consequences.
You don’t need to wait for a third time. Twice is enough to know who they are.
This activity is for:
-People who forgave once and are wondering if they should forgive again
-People who see the same pattern repeating in their relationships
-People who are learning to spot patterns, not just mistakes
-People who want to protect themselves from repeated pain
-Everyone who’s ready to say: “Twice is too much.”
TASK: Copy and answer
1. Have you ever given someone a second chance? What happened after?
2. What’s ONE thing you’ll NEVER give a second chance for even if they apologize? Explain.
3. What’s ONE thing you MIGHT give a second chance for (if they truly try)? Why?
4. Write ONE sentence: “ I’m learning that second chances are ….”
ATTACHMENT: Second chance ticket
- On a piece of paper, draw a rectangle ( lines should be broken/dashed — like a ticket )
- Inside the shape , write this:
Second Chance Ticket ( center, title )
Name:
Mistake: (T2 answer)
✅ 1st chance: GIVEN
❌ 2nd chance: DENIED
“Twice is too much”
- Write legibly. Capture clearly. Attach.
Rules & Reminders:
- Pink/Grey BADGES ( 5+ marketplace badges) only
- Be subscribed to
- Post on your timeline, not inside this group. Tag #TwiceIsTooMuch + mention
- Reply here with post link to qualify. NO link / Deleted posts or comments = NO rewards.
- Respect other people’s shares! Keep it kind and from the heart!
- I read submissions one by one, and I understand those copied or rephrased entries. If this happens again, you will be blocked and will no longer be able to participate in any future activities
- Closes at 10 entries .
- Failure to follow any of the given rules may be subject to disqualification or deduction of rewards!
VERY VERY IMPORTANT NOTES FOR THIS ACTIVITY:
BASE REWARD is 300,000 MLX per participant. Duplicate entries won’t be entertained.
1. DISQUALIFICATION
· Posting inside the group.
· Entries out of topic
· NOT subscribed to
· COPIED or REPHRASED entries
· Entries from someone with more than 1 Tangled account
2. DEDUCTIONS
· 30k - Failure to include any or all of the ff: correct tag #TwiceIsTooMuch and mentions:
· 30k- Failure to copy the exact tasks
· 30k-100k – Failure to answer in complete thought
· 100k - Failure to follow the required correct attachment ( minor mistakes = deductions only )
3. ALL deductions from rule-breakers will be split evenly among participants who followed every rule.
In cases where the deductions are significantly larger and the participants who followed the rules do not exceed half of the capped entries, a portion of the deduction will be allocated to standout entries. Meanwhile, those who complied with the rules will also receive their share.
“Twice is too much.”
You might be wondering: “ Wait, isn’t ‘once is enough’ the rule? ”
Yes! Once is enough to know something’s wrong. But sometimes, we give people one chance to fix it. One chance to apologize. One chance to change. One chance to show us they care.
But when it happens again? Twice is too much.
Here’s what that means:
One mistake = you can forgive and teach
Two mistakes = they’re showing you their pattern
One hurt = you can heal together
Two hurts = they’re not trying to change
One boundary crossed = you can remind them
Two boundaries crossed = they don’t respect you
This doesn’t mean you’re harsh . It means you’re wise . You’re learning to see patterns , not just single moments. You’re protecting yourself from repeated pain .
Psychologists call this “behavioral repetition.” When someone does something twice, it shows:
It’s not an accident. They’re not trying to change. They accept the consequences.
You don’t need to wait for a third time. Twice is enough to know who they are.
This activity is for:
-People who forgave once and are wondering if they should forgive again
-People who see the same pattern repeating in their relationships
-People who are learning to spot patterns, not just mistakes
-People who want to protect themselves from repeated pain
-Everyone who’s ready to say: “Twice is too much.”
TASK: Copy and answer
1. Have you ever given someone a second chance? What happened after?
2. What’s ONE thing you’ll NEVER give a second chance for even if they apologize? Explain.
3. What’s ONE thing you MIGHT give a second chance for (if they truly try)? Why?
4. Write ONE sentence: “ I’m learning that second chances are ….”
ATTACHMENT: Second chance ticket
- On a piece of paper, draw a rectangle ( lines should be broken/dashed — like a ticket )
- Inside the shape , write this:
Second Chance Ticket ( center, title )
Name:
Mistake: (T2 answer)
✅ 1st chance: GIVEN
❌ 2nd chance: DENIED
“Twice is too much”
- Write legibly. Capture clearly. Attach.
Rules & Reminders:
- Pink/Grey BADGES ( 5+ marketplace badges) only
- Be subscribed to
- Post on your timeline, not inside this group. Tag #TwiceIsTooMuch + mention
- Reply here with post link to qualify. NO link / Deleted posts or comments = NO rewards.
- Respect other people’s shares! Keep it kind and from the heart!
- I read submissions one by one, and I understand those copied or rephrased entries. If this happens again, you will be blocked and will no longer be able to participate in any future activities
- Closes at 10 entries .
- Failure to follow any of the given rules may be subject to disqualification or deduction of rewards!
VERY VERY IMPORTANT NOTES FOR THIS ACTIVITY:
BASE REWARD is 300,000 MLX per participant. Duplicate entries won’t be entertained.
1. DISQUALIFICATION
· Posting inside the group.
· Entries out of topic
· NOT subscribed to
· COPIED or REPHRASED entries
· Entries from someone with more than 1 Tangled account
2. DEDUCTIONS
· 30k - Failure to include any or all of the ff: correct tag #TwiceIsTooMuch and mentions:
· 30k- Failure to copy the exact tasks
· 30k-100k – Failure to answer in complete thought
· 100k - Failure to follow the required correct attachment ( minor mistakes = deductions only )
3. ALL deductions from rule-breakers will be split evenly among participants who followed every rule.
In cases where the deductions are significantly larger and the participants who followed the rules do not exceed half of the capped entries, a portion of the deduction will be allocated to standout entries. Meanwhile, those who complied with the rules will also receive their share.
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Thank you all for participating in the #TwiceIsTooMuch activity! Your willingness to reflect on your experiences and share your insights is a powerful step towards understanding your boundaries and protecting your emotional well-being.
As we wrap up this session, remember that recognizing patterns in behavior is a sign of strength and wisdom. It’s not about being unforgiving; it’s about valuing yourself and knowing when to step back. Each of you has taken an important step in asserting what you will and won’t accept in your relationships.
Rewards have been sent to eligible entries. I capped at 11 entries but I received 11 submissions so I will include it, the same rules applied. Unfortunately, out of the 11 reviewed submissions, no one followed the rules perfectly so everyone incurred deductions for minor and major mistakes.
If you'd like to understand the reasons behind your deductions and where you went wrong, I encourage you to compare your entries with my guidelines. I won't be addressing each mistake individually at this time, as the same issues tend to recur.
Deductions stemmed from the following:
1. Tasks not copied completely or rephrased; rephrased other’s entry
2. TOO MANY TO MENTION ATTACHMENT MISTAKES ; any difference in attachment incurred deductions
ATTACHMENT: Second chance ticket
- On a piece of paper, draw a rectangle ( lines should be broken/dashed — like a ticket )
- Inside the shape , write this:
Second Chance Ticket ( center, title )
Name:
Mistake: (T2 answer)
✅ 1st chance: GIVEN
❌ 2nd chance: DENIED
“Twice is too much”
- Write legibly. Capture clearly. Attach.
The 450k mlx remaining from overall deductions will be distributed as follows:
1. 300k mlx –
2. 150k mlx–
TOTAL PAYOUT: 3,000,000 MLX
As we wrap up this session, remember that recognizing patterns in behavior is a sign of strength and wisdom. It’s not about being unforgiving; it’s about valuing yourself and knowing when to step back. Each of you has taken an important step in asserting what you will and won’t accept in your relationships.
Rewards have been sent to eligible entries. I capped at 11 entries but I received 11 submissions so I will include it, the same rules applied. Unfortunately, out of the 11 reviewed submissions, no one followed the rules perfectly so everyone incurred deductions for minor and major mistakes.
If you'd like to understand the reasons behind your deductions and where you went wrong, I encourage you to compare your entries with my guidelines. I won't be addressing each mistake individually at this time, as the same issues tend to recur.
Deductions stemmed from the following:
1. Tasks not copied completely or rephrased; rephrased other’s entry
2. TOO MANY TO MENTION ATTACHMENT MISTAKES ; any difference in attachment incurred deductions
ATTACHMENT: Second chance ticket
- On a piece of paper, draw a rectangle ( lines should be broken/dashed — like a ticket )
- Inside the shape , write this:
Second Chance Ticket ( center, title )
Name:
Mistake: (T2 answer)
✅ 1st chance: GIVEN
❌ 2nd chance: DENIED
“Twice is too much”
- Write legibly. Capture clearly. Attach.
The 450k mlx remaining from overall deductions will be distributed as follows:
1. 300k mlx –
2. 150k mlx–
TOTAL PAYOUT: 3,000,000 MLX
ACTIVITY CLOSED! No longer accepting submissions as capped entries are all filled.
