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Hey beautiful souls, quick heads-up before we get into it: premarital sex is super personal stuff that hits close to home for a lot of us, whether you're all for it, totally against it, or somewhere in between from family talks or life lessons. Let's keep things real and kind around here, no judging anyone's story, just good vibes and listening like friends chatting over coffee. 💕

Premarital sex. For some it's a smart move, like getting to know your partner deeply before locking it down forever (testing those waters feels natural and builds real connection). For others it's a straight-up risky gamble, with emotional ups and downs, surprise pregnancies, or values from culture/faith saying wait til marriage to keep things sacred.

You're against it? Cool, share why it feels wrong or what held you back.
All for it? Tell us the reasons it made sense in your world.
 
What's your honest take? Comment your answers, saying if you're pro or against and explain your personal reasons in detail in at least 5 sentences. (PRO or AGAINST + 5 SENTENCES)
 
COMMENT ATTACHMENT:   #PremaritalThoughts on top, then below your answer if PRO or AGAINST

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- Comment your answer below. Tag #PremaritalThoughts + mention  and . 
- Reply here with post link to qualify. NO link / Deleted posts or comments = NO rewards.
- Be real. Respect other people’s share.
- I read submissions one by one, and I understand those copied or rephrased entries. If this happens again, you will be blocked and will no longer be able to participate in any future activities will host.
- Closes at 20 entries.
- Failure to follow any of the given rules may be subject to disqualification or deduction of rewards!
 
VERY VERY IMPORTANT NOTES FOR THIS ACTIVITY:
BASE REWARD is 150,000 MLX per participant. Duplicate entries won’t be entertained.
1.    DISQUALIFICATION
- Entry Post/Commenting the link to a post
- Entries out of topic
- NOT subscribed to upon checking.
- COPIED or REPHRASED entries
- Entries from someone with more than 1 Tangled account
2.    DEDUCTIONS
- 20k - Failure to follow the required sentences
- 20k - Failure to use the correct tag #PremaritalThoughts and mentions:  and
- 30k-100k - Failure to explain in complete thought
- 30k - Failure to follow the required attachment; it should only be 1 attachment with only the tag and 1 word answer (PRO or AGAINST)
3.    ALL deductions from rule-breakers will be split evenly among participants who followed every rule.
 
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This #PremaritalThoughts activity is now officially closed.

Thank you all for sharing your personal insights on the topic of premarital sex. I truly appreciate the honesty and vulnerability you've demonstrated in expressing your views, whether in support of or against it. It’s clear that this is a deeply personal subject that can significantly influence relationships.

I want to provide an update regarding the rewards for this activity. I received a total of 20 submissions; however, 4 entries were disqualified for including links to their posts when this was intended to be a comment activity.

Additionally, only 3 participants adhered to the rules completely, while 13 entries incurred deductions for not attaching the required image and failing to include the necessary mentions.

It saddens me to see some great entries receive smaller rewards due to these oversights. To acknowledge the effort of those who followed the rules, I have decided to distribute the deductions from rule breakers among the three participants who complied fully. Furthermore, the MLX from disqualified participants will be split evenly among standout entries.

From the disqualified entries, I will be splitting 600k MLX equally among those who stood out to me, regardless of whether they attached the required image. This is my way of thanking them for going the extra mile to make their entries relatable for me. The recipients are and . Originally, there were seven, but one standout entry was deleted, so I can only include six. Each will receive a bonus of 100k MLX.

As for the deductions that will be shared among the participants who followed all the rules, I have 510k MLX to distribute, resulting in each receiving 170k MLX: and .
 

TOTAL PAYOUT: 3,000,000 MLX
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AGAINST: I believe premarital sex should be avoided because it can create emotional attachment before a lifelong commitment is secured. For me, intimacy feels more meaningful when it is reserved for marriage, where there is stability and a clear promise of responsibility. Cultural and religious values also play a big role in shaping my view, teaching that waiting protects both dignity and long-term trust. There are also practical concerns like heartbreak, comparison, or unexpected consequences that can complicate life. Choosing to wait feels like a way to honor commitment, self-control, and the deeper purpose of marriage.
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I personally believe premarital sex is not the right choice for me because it involves deep emotional and personal responsibility. I was raised with values that emphasize respect, patience, and waiting until marriage. I think waiting helps build stronger trust and a more meaningful bond between partners. It also protects both people from emotional pain and regret that can happen when things don’t work out. For me, true love is about commitment, respect, and choosing the right time in a halal and honorable way
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I stand PRO not because I disregard the value of marriage, but because I have learned from my own experience that premarital sex does not measure a woman's purity or worth, rather it reflects a personal decision shaped by self-respect, clear intention, and the depth of connection shared with the person involved.
I believe that when intimacy happens not out of pure impulse but through mutual consent, emotional readiness, and genuine love, it becomes a way of understanding a partner beyond promises and words, allowing both individuals to see each other more fully and honestly.
Marriage itself is not a guaranteed shield against heartbreak or betrayal, which is why responsibility, discernment, and refusing to engage in casual or lust 7driven encounters matter more to me than simply waiting for a wedding ceremony.
My past experience does not diminish my value, because a woman's dignity is not erased by one chapter of her life but is defined by how she grows, reflects, and continues to honor herself afterward.
In the end, premarital sex is neither automatically right nor wrong, as its true weight depends on the intention, maturity, and accountability of the people involved, and I would rather stand in truth with my lived reality than hide behind an image that no longer represents who I am.
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I am against premarital sex because I believe physical intimacy creates a strong emotional bond that can be hard to undo. I feel that waiting builds deeper trust and communication without mixing in physical attachment too early. My values and beliefs also shape the idea that intimacy is more meaningful within marriage. I worry about emotional consequences or complications that can arise without long-term commitment. For me personally, waiting feels more aligned with the kind of relationship foundation I would want.
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I personally stand AGAINST premarital sex because I believe intimacy is something sacred and should be reserved for marriage. For me, emotional attachment is very deep, and I feel that physical closeness before a lifelong commitment can create confusion and heartbreak. I also value cultural and religious teachings that encourage patience and self-control until marriage. Waiting builds trust, respect, and a stronger foundation based on commitment rather than temporary feelings. In my opinion, true love is about loyalty, responsibility, and honoring long-term promises, not just physical connection.
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I personally choose to wait because I see intimacy as something deeply meaningful that I want to share within the security and commitment of marriage. For me, emotional connection feels safer and more special when it’s built on a lifelong promise rather than uncertainty. I also value the teachings I grew up with, which emphasize patience, self-control, and respecting the sacredness of sex. There are practical concerns too, like avoiding emotional complications or unintended consequences that can arise when two people are not fully committed. Ultimately, my stance comes from a place of personal values, long-term vision, and wanting to protect both my heart and future relationship.
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Let's be real, in today's world, how can we avoid premarital sex?.
I view premarital sex as a way to express your love towards someone,. I believe it's necessary to be matured and understand sexual needs.
Some may say that it can weaken relationship coz it lessen the desire and interest. In my opinion it actually help reduce confusion specially towards marriage. Individual involves may feel more comfortable towards each other.
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I understand your point of being pro and I respect it.

deductions:
30k - Failure to follow the required attachment; it should only be 1 attachment with only the tag and 1 word answer (PRO or AGAINST)
 20k - Failure to use the correct tag and mention
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It's fine. I understand and respect your perspective.

deductions:
30k - Failure to follow the required attachment; it should only be 1 attachment with only the tag and 1 word answer (PRO or AGAINST)
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In a country like Pakistan, many people grow up influenced by Islamic teachings and cultural norms that encourage waiting until marriage. For example, in Qur'an, intimacy is clearly guided to happen within marriage, which for many believers makes premarital sex feel spiritually wrong and emotionally unsafe. From that perspective, waiting protects emotional attachment, family honor, and long-term stability.

On the other hand, in many Western societies, premarital relationships are seen as a way to understand compatibility — emotionally and physically — before making a lifelong commitment. Some people believe it helps build trust, honesty, and clarity about expectations. They feel that informed choices reduce future regret.
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It would be great to know your individual perspective rather than simply reflecting the opinions of others.

Another deduction: 30k - Failure to follow the required attachment; it should only be 1 attachment with only the tag and 1 word answer (PRO or AGAINST)
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I personally believe premarital sex is not the right choice for me because of my faith and personal values. I feel that intimacy is something sacred that should be shared within marriage, where there is full commitment and responsibility. Emotional attachment can be very deep, and without long-term security, it may lead to heartbreak or regret. I also think waiting builds discipline, respect, and a stronger foundation for a future relationship. For me, protecting my emotional and physical well-being is more important than temporary pleasure. Everyone has their own path, but this is the choice that aligns with my beliefs and gives me peace of mind.


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I am personally against premarital sex because I believe intimacy should come with lifelong commitment. For me, emotional and physical connection feels more meaningful within marriage. I also think waiting helps protect the heart from unnecessary pain if a relationship ends. My faith and personal values play a big role in shaping this view. At the same time, I respect that others may see it differently based on their own experiences and beliefs.
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AGAINST – I feel premarital sex isn’t right for me because it can complicate emotions in ways that are hard to manage. For me, intimacy is something sacred that should be shared with full commitment, not just curiosity or attraction. Waiting until marriage allows trust and respect to grow naturally, giving the relationship a stronger foundation. I also value the clarity it brings—no mixed signals or regrets clouding the bond. Ultimately, for me, choosing patience and honoring my values feels empowering, secure, and true to who I am.

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DEDUCTION:
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This is just a comment activity.

1.    DISQUALIFICATION
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I am actually got confused here too 😁✌️
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My apologies for that, I failed to remove that part of the previous post rules. But I believe I made it clear when I mentioned to just comment the answers in the middle part of my post and at the bottom, which some of those who participated were able to follow including you.

I remember I made the comments visible only after 72 hours, are you able to read it except yours and my reply to you?
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Yah other comments are not visible except mine and your reply. Its okay.
And good night 😴 😴 😴
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Can I do it again???
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Big No for me.(Against at 100%)
I prioritize chastity and purity, by doing so I am basically choosing to build a rock solid foundation of friendship and communication before adding that physical layer. It's a bit like a character test for a future partner if they are willing to wait and respect my boundaries.As I always say I am firm with my boundaries.By doing this, I will then learn if a future partner is truly into me and not just physical connection.This path also help me to avoid the emotional ghost or baggage that can sometimes clutter up a new marriage.It is just about essentially saving a specific part of my story for just one person which will make marriage incredibly sacred and set apart.A great way to practice delayed gratifications, showing that I have the discipline to wait for what I believe is best.Without shortcut of physical intimacy me and my partner could have good chance to talk about tough stuff which will create a uniquely emotional safety where trust is build on shared values rather than just chemistry.Ultimately, it is about starting a married life with total clarity and sense of oneness that hasn't been shared elsewhere.Its a bold choice that values a lifelong covenant over a temporary moment and that's pretty beautiful.






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Perfect! But I have to deduct 30k mlx for this:
- 30k - Failure to follow the required attachment; it should only be 1 attachment with only the tag and 1 word answer (PRO or AGAINST)
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No worries, it is okay😊🌻✨
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My honest take , I am against premarital sex, and it is a position I have thought about deeply , not just followed blindly.
For me, it conflicts with my beliefs and faith, which teach that intimacy carries spiritual weight and isn’t meant to be casual. My traditional values see sex as something sacred that belongs within marriage, where commitment, responsibility, and security are clearly defined. Culturally, I was raised to believe that self-control and patience are signs of strength, not repression. I also see how premarital sex can complicate emotions , attachments form, expectations rise, and when things end, the damage isn’t always visible but it’s real.
Ethically, I believe waiting builds trust and respect, and it helps ensure that love isn’t reduced to physical access. It held me back because I didn’t want momentary desire to override long-term stability. For me, love grows stronger when it’s disciplined, intentional, and aligned with my morals.
This doesn’t mean I judge others , everyone walks a different path, but this choice gives me peace, and that matters most. Thanks 🙏

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Very well said but I have to deduct 50k mlx for these reasons:
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- 30k - Failure to follow the required attachment; it should only be 1 attachment with only the tag and 1 word answer (PRO or AGAINST)
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Accepted!
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In my religion, Islam, premarital sex is considered haram, and as a Muslim, I am personally against it. For me, marriage is a sacred bond that should begin with purity, respect, and commitment. Engaging in such relationships before marriage goes against my faith and the values I strongly believe in. I also feel that it can lead to emotional complications and social problems that could be avoided by waiting. True love, in my opinion, is the one that grows in a halal way after marriage and earns the pleasure of Allah.
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Very well said! But I have to deduct 30k for this:
- 30k - Failure to follow the required attachment; it should only be 1 attachment with only the tag and 1 word answer (PRO or AGAINST)