When I was a child, I was often told that I was โtoo quietโ and โnot good enoughโ compared to others. Sometimes, teachers and relatives praised other children more, and I felt invisible. I tried my best, but it seemed like my efforts were never enough. Back then, I did not understand why it hurt so much, but I kept everything inside. Today, this shows up as self-doubt in my life. Sometimes, even when I do well, I still feel unsure about myself. I worry too much about what people think of me. This memory still stings because it made me feel small and unimportant. It made me believe that I had to prove my worth all the time. But over the years, I have learned to be kinder to myself. I remind myself that my value does not depend on othersโ opinions. I have started to celebrate my small successes. Talking about my feelings with trusted people has also helped me heal. Now, I am learning to trust myself more and feel proud of who I am? This journey is not easy, but every step makes me stronger and more peaceful.
this hit me right in the heart. That feeling of being invisible, of your quiet efforts going unnoticed, I know that ache well. It's like a little seed of doubt that gets planted so early on.