#OwnYourTimeline g/confessions g/studio 1. If you had to…
18 reactions
#OwnYourTimeline
1. If you had to pick a number, what age do you think is “right” (or “right for you”) to get married or become a parent? Why?
✨For woman 25 to 28 and for man 30 to 33. I choose that age because being a woman, it is complicated to bear a child at an older age. It feels like the perfect sweet spot where you are mature enough to build a life, but still young and healthy enough to handle pregnancy and raise kids.
Both for man and woman, at this stage in life, you've usually had a chance to step out into the real world, test your own wings, build beginnings of a career and truly figure out who you truly are as an independent adult before merging your life completely with someone's else or taking on a lifelong responsibility of rasing a child or children.
2. If you think there can be a “right age,” what makes that age feel “right” to you?
✨It just feels right because it strikes a good balance. You are mature enough to handle real responsibilities and big commitments, but you are still flexible enough to learn as you go and handle the ups and downs of family life.
3. Do you think being financially or emotionally stable is a MUST before marriage/parenthood, or can it grow along the way? Explain briefly.
✨You definitely need to be emotionally ready to handle the stress, but you don't need to have everything perfectly figured out. Financial and emotional stability can absolutely grow along the way. Facing challenges together is actually what makes you stronger.
4. Whether you’re already married/already a parent or not yet, can you imagine getting married or becoming a parent earlier or later than your “right age,” or even again in the future? Explain briefly.
✨Yes, definitely, because life doesn't always go according to plan. Changing your timeline just means you adapt to a new season, take a leap of faith, and change your expectations to focus on what is best for your family right then.
5. If someone younger than you wanted to get married or be a parent, what would you personally tell them to think about first?
✨I would tell them that marriage is not like hot, newly cooked rice that you can just spit out if it burns your mouth. It is a lifetime commitment, so you need to think about it very carefully and never rush into it. Make sure you know your own limits and are ready to grow, because building a family takes daily, patient work.
✨✨✨But most of all trust God's plan and timing.
A little one shall become a thousand, and a small one a strong nation: I the Lord will hasten it in his time. -Isaiah 60:22 KJV
1. If you had to pick a number, what age do you think is “right” (or “right for you”) to get married or become a parent? Why?
✨For woman 25 to 28 and for man 30 to 33. I choose that age because being a woman, it is complicated to bear a child at an older age. It feels like the perfect sweet spot where you are mature enough to build a life, but still young and healthy enough to handle pregnancy and raise kids.
Both for man and woman, at this stage in life, you've usually had a chance to step out into the real world, test your own wings, build beginnings of a career and truly figure out who you truly are as an independent adult before merging your life completely with someone's else or taking on a lifelong responsibility of rasing a child or children.
2. If you think there can be a “right age,” what makes that age feel “right” to you?
✨It just feels right because it strikes a good balance. You are mature enough to handle real responsibilities and big commitments, but you are still flexible enough to learn as you go and handle the ups and downs of family life.
3. Do you think being financially or emotionally stable is a MUST before marriage/parenthood, or can it grow along the way? Explain briefly.
✨You definitely need to be emotionally ready to handle the stress, but you don't need to have everything perfectly figured out. Financial and emotional stability can absolutely grow along the way. Facing challenges together is actually what makes you stronger.
4. Whether you’re already married/already a parent or not yet, can you imagine getting married or becoming a parent earlier or later than your “right age,” or even again in the future? Explain briefly.
✨Yes, definitely, because life doesn't always go according to plan. Changing your timeline just means you adapt to a new season, take a leap of faith, and change your expectations to focus on what is best for your family right then.
5. If someone younger than you wanted to get married or be a parent, what would you personally tell them to think about first?
✨I would tell them that marriage is not like hot, newly cooked rice that you can just spit out if it burns your mouth. It is a lifetime commitment, so you need to think about it very carefully and never rush into it. Make sure you know your own limits and are ready to grow, because building a family takes daily, patient work.
✨✨✨But most of all trust God's plan and timing.
A little one shall become a thousand, and a small one a strong nation: I the Lord will hasten it in his time. -Isaiah 60:22 KJV
4
3
1
1
| 155,000 mlx | |
| 40 | |
| 18 |
