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#ForgiveFreeze
Ever felt that chill of imagining a betrayal so deep you'd freeze it in unforgiveness forever? It's like pre-building an emotional fortress—psychology notes these "pre-grudges" sharpen boundaries but can dim today's joy if they loom too large. Let's name them together in this safe space, turning fear into clarity.
Future Freeze
Pick one future scenario that would make forgiveness impossible for you. Be vivid and precise:
1. The Role: Who might betray you
2. The Betrayal: Exact act you dread ( e.g., abandoning me during a family crisis after promising support ).
3. Why Unforgivable: Core reason it'd shatter trust forever
4. Current Shadow: How this fear shapes your choices today
MANDATORY: It's not part of this activity to mention anyone or use your default mention for fellow Tanglers—whoever you mention won't be able to read your comment within 72 hours anyway, so STOP that. Anyone who does will incur a 100k DEDUCTION. TRY ME.
Also, anyone who has a deleted comment (even if you comment again) will not be rewarded.
ATTACHMENT: PAPER/PEN/COLOR MEDIA
- Draw melting ice block
- Inside frozen part: Write your Number2 answer
- Below the drawing: "Freeze forgiveness before it freezes you"
- Include
Rules & Reminders:
- Pink/Grey BADGES (5+ marketplace badges) only
- Be subscribed to
- COMMENT your answer below with tag #ForgiveFreeze + mention
- I read submissions one by one, and I understand those copied or rephrased entries. If this happens again, you will be blocked and will no longer be able to participate in any future activities
- Closes at 10 entries.
- Failure to follow any of the given rules may be subject to disqualification or deduction of rewards!
VERY VERY IMPORTANT NOTES FOR THIS ACTIVITY:
BASE REWARD is 300,000 MLX per participant. Duplicate entries won’t be entertained .
***I set the comments to be visible only after 72 hours. This activity will officially close once the comments are made public. This approach is intended to be fair to those who participate early. I typically provide feedback on each entry, detailing any deductions. However, I've noticed that some participants submit their entries after the comments are visible, which allows them to benefit from insights that others may have missed. This policy aims to ensure a level playing field for all participants.***
1. DISQUALIFICATION
• Posting inside the group/Commenting the link to a post
• Entries out of topic
• NOT subscribed to
• COPIED or REPHRASED entries
• Entries from someone with more than 1 Tangled account
2. DEDUCTIONS
• 30k - Failure to include any or all of the ff: correct tag #ForgiveFreeze and mentions:
• 30k-100k - Failure to follow the task format and explain in complete thought
• 30k – Failure to include the required statement
• 100k - Failure to follow the required correct attachment ( minor mistakes = deductions only )
3. ALL deductions from rule-breakers will be split evenly among participants who followed every rule.
In cases where the deductions are significantly larger and the participants who followed the rules do not exceed half of the capped entries, a portion of the deduction will be allocated to standout entries. Meanwhile, those who complied with the rules will also receive their share.
Ever felt that chill of imagining a betrayal so deep you'd freeze it in unforgiveness forever? It's like pre-building an emotional fortress—psychology notes these "pre-grudges" sharpen boundaries but can dim today's joy if they loom too large. Let's name them together in this safe space, turning fear into clarity.
Future Freeze
Pick one future scenario that would make forgiveness impossible for you. Be vivid and precise:
1. The Role: Who might betray you
2. The Betrayal: Exact act you dread ( e.g., abandoning me during a family crisis after promising support ).
3. Why Unforgivable: Core reason it'd shatter trust forever
4. Current Shadow: How this fear shapes your choices today
MANDATORY: It's not part of this activity to mention anyone or use your default mention for fellow Tanglers—whoever you mention won't be able to read your comment within 72 hours anyway, so STOP that. Anyone who does will incur a 100k DEDUCTION. TRY ME.
Also, anyone who has a deleted comment (even if you comment again) will not be rewarded.
ATTACHMENT: PAPER/PEN/COLOR MEDIA
- Draw melting ice block
- Inside frozen part: Write your Number2 answer
- Below the drawing: "Freeze forgiveness before it freezes you"
- Include
Rules & Reminders:
- Pink/Grey BADGES (5+ marketplace badges) only
- Be subscribed to
- COMMENT your answer below with tag #ForgiveFreeze + mention
- I read submissions one by one, and I understand those copied or rephrased entries. If this happens again, you will be blocked and will no longer be able to participate in any future activities
- Closes at 10 entries.
- Failure to follow any of the given rules may be subject to disqualification or deduction of rewards!
VERY VERY IMPORTANT NOTES FOR THIS ACTIVITY:
BASE REWARD is 300,000 MLX per participant. Duplicate entries won’t be entertained .
***I set the comments to be visible only after 72 hours. This activity will officially close once the comments are made public. This approach is intended to be fair to those who participate early. I typically provide feedback on each entry, detailing any deductions. However, I've noticed that some participants submit their entries after the comments are visible, which allows them to benefit from insights that others may have missed. This policy aims to ensure a level playing field for all participants.***
1. DISQUALIFICATION
• Posting inside the group/Commenting the link to a post
• Entries out of topic
• NOT subscribed to
• COPIED or REPHRASED entries
• Entries from someone with more than 1 Tangled account
2. DEDUCTIONS
• 30k - Failure to include any or all of the ff: correct tag #ForgiveFreeze and mentions:
• 30k-100k - Failure to follow the task format and explain in complete thought
• 30k – Failure to include the required statement
• 100k - Failure to follow the required correct attachment ( minor mistakes = deductions only )
3. ALL deductions from rule-breakers will be split evenly among participants who followed every rule.
In cases where the deductions are significantly larger and the participants who followed the rules do not exceed half of the capped entries, a portion of the deduction will be allocated to standout entries. Meanwhile, those who complied with the rules will also receive their share.
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I am officially closing this #ForgiveFreeze activity, as I did not receive any new submissions within the 72-hour period and the comments are now visible to the public.
I want to extend a heartfelt thank you to each of you for your courage and openness in sharing your thoughts and feelings. Engaging in such a deep and personal exploration of potential betrayals is no small feat, and your willingness to confront these fears in a safe space has been truly inspiring.
I am pleased to inform you that all rewards have been distributed to eligible entries. While I capped entries at 10, I received a total of 9 submissions. Out of these, only 1 entry adhered perfectly to the rules, while the others incurred minor or major deductions due to various mistakes.
Additional mlx distribution:
1. 300k (1 unfilled spot) -
2. 640k deductions – 160k mlx to standout answers:
TOTAL PAYOUT: 3,000,000 MLX
I want to extend a heartfelt thank you to each of you for your courage and openness in sharing your thoughts and feelings. Engaging in such a deep and personal exploration of potential betrayals is no small feat, and your willingness to confront these fears in a safe space has been truly inspiring.
I am pleased to inform you that all rewards have been distributed to eligible entries. While I capped entries at 10, I received a total of 9 submissions. Out of these, only 1 entry adhered perfectly to the rules, while the others incurred minor or major deductions due to various mistakes.
Additional mlx distribution:
1. 300k (1 unfilled spot) -
2. 640k deductions – 160k mlx to standout answers:
TOTAL PAYOUT: 3,000,000 MLX
Here's my Entry 🥰 🥰
#earn #ForgiveFreeze
Future Freeze
1️⃣ . The Role:
A life partner—someone I’ve built a future with, shared vulnerabilities, and trusted with the quiet, unspoken parts of myself.
2️⃣. The Betrayal:
They secretly maintain a double life for years—emotionally and physically invested elsewhere—while continuing to reassure me daily that I’m their only truth.
3️⃣. Why Unforgivable:
It wouldn’t just be the act—it would be the sustained deception. The rewriting of shared memories into something false. Trust wouldn’t simply crack; it would dissolve entirely, leaving no stable ground to rebuild on. Forgiveness would feel like betraying my own reality.
4️⃣. Current Shadow:
This fear makes me hyper-aware of inconsistencies. I sometimes read too deeply into small shifts in tone or behavior, quietly preparing myself for a collapse that hasn’t happened. It pushes me to value independence, but occasionally at the cost of fully relaxing into connection.
#earn #ForgiveFreeze
Future Freeze
1️⃣ . The Role:
A life partner—someone I’ve built a future with, shared vulnerabilities, and trusted with the quiet, unspoken parts of myself.
2️⃣. The Betrayal:
They secretly maintain a double life for years—emotionally and physically invested elsewhere—while continuing to reassure me daily that I’m their only truth.
3️⃣. Why Unforgivable:
It wouldn’t just be the act—it would be the sustained deception. The rewriting of shared memories into something false. Trust wouldn’t simply crack; it would dissolve entirely, leaving no stable ground to rebuild on. Forgiveness would feel like betraying my own reality.
4️⃣. Current Shadow:
This fear makes me hyper-aware of inconsistencies. I sometimes read too deeply into small shifts in tone or behavior, quietly preparing myself for a collapse that hasn’t happened. It pushes me to value independence, but occasionally at the cost of fully relaxing into connection.
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2. Attachment: Should be freezes not just "freeze"
2. Attachment: Should be freezes not just "freeze"
#ForgiveFreeze
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Future Freeze
1. The Role:
A very close friend or someone I love deeply.
2. The Betrayal:
Leaving me alone during my hardest time after promising to always support me.
3. Why Unforgivable:
Because trust and loyalty mean everything to me. If someone leaves when I need them most, it would break my trust forever.
4. Current Shadow:
This fear makes me careful with people. Sometimes I keep my feelings to myself and avoid depending too much on others.
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1. Failed to include required additional statement
2. Mentioning of someone
2. Mentioning of someone
Sorry I had sent it already, but maybe there was some network issue. I was in hurry so I didn't check it again
#ForgiveFreeze
#earn activity
*1. The Role:* A close friend I trusted like family
*2. The Betrayal:* Standing with others to spread a false story about me during my hardest time, after promising to keep my secrets safe
*3. Why Unforgivable:* Trust is the foundation of every relationship. If someone who swore to protect you becomes the one who breaks you publicly, that bond can never be rebuilt
*4. Current Shadow:* This fear makes me think twice before sharing personal things. I guard my words more than I should, even with people who deserve my trust
#earn activity
*1. The Role:* A close friend I trusted like family
*2. The Betrayal:* Standing with others to spread a false story about me during my hardest time, after promising to keep my secrets safe
*3. Why Unforgivable:* Trust is the foundation of every relationship. If someone who swore to protect you becomes the one who breaks you publicly, that bond can never be rebuilt
*4. Current Shadow:* This fear makes me think twice before sharing personal things. I guard my words more than I should, even with people who deserve my trust
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2. Attachment: Misspelled "freees"; hashtag not written as it is
2. Attachment: Misspelled "freees"; hashtag not written as it is
#ForgiveFreeze
#earn activity
1. The Role:
A family member — someone I trust deeply and believe will always stand beside me.
2. The Betrayal:
Leaving me alone during the hardest time of my life after promising they would always support and protect me.
3. Why Unforgivable:
Because trust built with family is supposed to feel permanent. If they abandon me in my darkest moment, that trust would break forever and never feel the same again.
4. Current Shadow:
This fear makes me careful about trusting people completely. Even when someone is close to me, a part of me stays guarded because I’m scared of being hurt someday.
“Protecting tomorrow shouldn't steal today.”
#earn activity
1. The Role:
A family member — someone I trust deeply and believe will always stand beside me.
2. The Betrayal:
Leaving me alone during the hardest time of my life after promising they would always support and protect me.
3. Why Unforgivable:
Because trust built with family is supposed to feel permanent. If they abandon me in my darkest moment, that trust would break forever and never feel the same again.
4. Current Shadow:
This fear makes me careful about trusting people completely. Even when someone is close to me, a part of me stays guarded because I’m scared of being hurt someday.
“Protecting tomorrow shouldn't steal today.”
#ForgiveFreeze + mention
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+ “Protecting tomorrow shouldn't steal today. ”
1. The Role: Who might betray you?
When I was 16, I fell in love with someone who took advantage of my young age. He used sweet words and promises, but he was already married. I chose to forgive him because I believe I was also at fault for trusting too easily. Since then, I feel that even friends I once trusted can betray me.
2. The Betrayal: Exact act you dread (e.g., abandoning me during a family crisis after promising support).
The thing I fear the most is when you place deep hopes and expectations in someone, and they break your trust completely.
3. Why Unforgivable: Core reason it would shatter trust forever.
Because trust is something I give with a pure heart. When someone destroys that trust, it doesn’t just hurt—it changes how I see people forever. It becomes very hard to believe in anyone again, and that emotional damage feels impossible to fully heal.
4. Current Shadow: How this fear shapes your choices today.
This fear affects me even today. I often hold myself back from trusting people fully. I also worry that if Allah blesses me with a daughter, she might become like me—someone who trusts everyone easily and ends up getting hurt. This thought scares me a lot.
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+ “Protecting tomorrow shouldn't steal today. ”
1. The Role: Who might betray you?
When I was 16, I fell in love with someone who took advantage of my young age. He used sweet words and promises, but he was already married. I chose to forgive him because I believe I was also at fault for trusting too easily. Since then, I feel that even friends I once trusted can betray me.
2. The Betrayal: Exact act you dread (e.g., abandoning me during a family crisis after promising support).
The thing I fear the most is when you place deep hopes and expectations in someone, and they break your trust completely.
3. Why Unforgivable: Core reason it would shatter trust forever.
Because trust is something I give with a pure heart. When someone destroys that trust, it doesn’t just hurt—it changes how I see people forever. It becomes very hard to believe in anyone again, and that emotional damage feels impossible to fully heal.
4. Current Shadow: How this fear shapes your choices today.
This fear affects me even today. I often hold myself back from trusting people fully. I also worry that if Allah blesses me with a daughter, she might become like me—someone who trusts everyone easily and ends up getting hurt. This thought scares me a lot.
#ForgiveFreeze
“Protecting tomorrow shouldn't steal today. ”
The Role: A closest friend I trusted like family.
The Betrayal: Sharing my private struggles and secrets publicly just to gain attention or make people laugh after promising they would always protect my trust.
Why Unforgivable: Because trust is something I give very carefully. If someone knowingly uses my vulnerable moments against me, it would feel less like a mistake and more like a deliberate betrayal of my dignity and safety.
Current Shadow: It makes me slow to open up completely. Even when people are kind, a small part of me keeps certain thoughts guarded because I fear they could someday become gossip or entertainment for others.
“Protecting tomorrow shouldn't steal today. ”
The Role: A closest friend I trusted like family.
The Betrayal: Sharing my private struggles and secrets publicly just to gain attention or make people laugh after promising they would always protect my trust.
Why Unforgivable: Because trust is something I give very carefully. If someone knowingly uses my vulnerable moments against me, it would feel less like a mistake and more like a deliberate betrayal of my dignity and safety.
Current Shadow: It makes me slow to open up completely. Even when people are kind, a small part of me keeps certain thoughts guarded because I fear they could someday become gossip or entertainment for others.
#ForgiveFreeze
“Protecting tomorrow shouldn't steal today.”
1. The Role: Who might betray you.
My work colleagues could betray me in future as I'm a teacher and there's a teacher staff which is like a friend's or colleagues but someone can betray me in future.
2. The Betrayal: Exact act you dread.
As mostly we gossips to each other like we did bad talks about the school or sometime about principal, and i might say that I'll not admit any of my relatives kid in this school because i don't like the school education system but i work here because i only need salary.
3. Why Unforgivable: Core reason it'd shatter trust forever.
It'll be unforgivable because i know if such thing happen then obviously principal will give me resign letter and I'll lost my job as i know there's my fault but my fault was to trust on my colleagues and share my opinion about the school or principal.
4. Current Shadow: How this fear shapes your choices today?
Because of this fear I stay silent, if I've issues from school education system or issues from the principal then i try to not to discuss to others as I've fear that if one day someone betrayal me.
“Protecting tomorrow shouldn't steal today.”
1. The Role: Who might betray you.
My work colleagues could betray me in future as I'm a teacher and there's a teacher staff which is like a friend's or colleagues but someone can betray me in future.
2. The Betrayal: Exact act you dread.
As mostly we gossips to each other like we did bad talks about the school or sometime about principal, and i might say that I'll not admit any of my relatives kid in this school because i don't like the school education system but i work here because i only need salary.
3. Why Unforgivable: Core reason it'd shatter trust forever.
It'll be unforgivable because i know if such thing happen then obviously principal will give me resign letter and I'll lost my job as i know there's my fault but my fault was to trust on my colleagues and share my opinion about the school or principal.
4. Current Shadow: How this fear shapes your choices today?
Because of this fear I stay silent, if I've issues from school education system or issues from the principal then i try to not to discuss to others as I've fear that if one day someone betrayal me.
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#ForgiveFreeze
" Protecting tomorrow shouldn't steal today"
1. The Role
Someone I deeply trust and consider my safe person - a close friend who knows my struggles and fears.
2. The Betrayal
Promising to stay beside me during my lowest moment, then suddenly leaving and talking badly about me behind my back when I needed support the most.
3. Why Unforgivable
Because trust is something I give carefully and sincerely. Being abandoned while vulnerable would break my ability to fully believe in someone again. The pain wouldn't just come from betrayal itself, but from realizing my trust meant less to them than it did to me.
4. Current Shadow
This fear makes me guard my emotions and overthink people's intentions. Sometimes I distance myself first to avoid becoming too attached because part of me fear fears being left behind someday.
" Protecting tomorrow shouldn't steal today"
1. The Role
Someone I deeply trust and consider my safe person - a close friend who knows my struggles and fears.
2. The Betrayal
Promising to stay beside me during my lowest moment, then suddenly leaving and talking badly about me behind my back when I needed support the most.
3. Why Unforgivable
Because trust is something I give carefully and sincerely. Being abandoned while vulnerable would break my ability to fully believe in someone again. The pain wouldn't just come from betrayal itself, but from realizing my trust meant less to them than it did to me.
4. Current Shadow
This fear makes me guard my emotions and overthink people's intentions. Sometimes I distance myself first to avoid becoming too attached because part of me fear fears being left behind someday.
#ForgiveFreeze
❄️ Future Freeze
1 Role: Someone I deeply trust, like a close friend or family member
2 Betrayal: Breaking my trust by sharing my private secrets with others after promising to keep them safe
3 Why Unforgivable: Because trust is the foundation of every strong relationship, and once it is broken in this way, it can never feel the same again
4 Current Shadow: This fear makes me careful about what I share and with whom I open up emotionally
“Protecting tomorrow shouldn't steal today.”
❄️ Future Freeze
1 Role: Someone I deeply trust, like a close friend or family member
2 Betrayal: Breaking my trust by sharing my private secrets with others after promising to keep them safe
3 Why Unforgivable: Because trust is the foundation of every strong relationship, and once it is broken in this way, it can never feel the same again
4 Current Shadow: This fear makes me careful about what I share and with whom I open up emotionally
“Protecting tomorrow shouldn't steal today.”
