If They Could Feel This – My Experience One thing I deal with every day as a guy is everyone expecting me to always be “tough” and hide how I really feel. Crying? Stress? Worries? We’re supposed to handle it all quietly. I wish women could feel what it’s like to carry that pressure even for a day—it’s draining. If they did, they’d get why sometimes we just seem distant or unemotional, but inside, we’re struggling too. I think it would make both sides understand each other better and finally break some of these dumb stereotypes.