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*1. Are you writing from the perspective of a child who had sibling rivalry, or from the perspective of a parent?*
I am writing from the perspective of a child. I have a younger sister. We have been close and competitive since childhood. Sometimes we were friendly at home, sometimes we were a little jealous because of the comparison. It was just that we felt like we had to outdo each other.
*2. What is your earliest memory that involves rivalry or strong comparison in the family?*
My earliest memory is about grades. When the results came out in school, everyone at home would look at who had the highest marks. I felt that if it was my work, then my work was important. It was a small thing, but it took us a long time. I was always obsessed with proving myself in such situations.
*3. Is there still competition or comparison — and how does it feel?*
It’s not so much anymore, but sometimes it happens over small things. It doesn't feel as raw as it used to. Now we both understand that we are different, and comparing is useless. Now if there is any comparison, it makes me laugh more, not hurt.
*4. What positive things did this rivalry teach you about yourself?*
It taught me how to handle jealousy. I found it necessary to speak up for myself, otherwise I will be ignored. And most importantly, a sense of space and boundaries. Now that I am a paradise, I don't need to fight the world to make my own identity.
*5. What do you wish could be different from how this rivalry manifests itself?*
I wish we had supported each other instead of comparing as children. If parents had been a little more balanced and we had done things differently, then the rivalry wouldn't have been so intense. Now it seems that a little kindness and justice makes everything easier.
*6. If you could talk to your younger self in a moment of intense hostility, what would you say?*
I would say to my younger self: "You are not a work if someone's marks are higher than yours, not by comparison to your value, but by your effort. And yes, your sister is not your hostility, Wu will also be confused, you will be more than you".
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*1. Are you writing from the perspective of a child who had sibling rivalry, or from the perspective of a parent?*
I am writing from the perspective of a child. I have a younger sister. We have been close and competitive since childhood. Sometimes we were friendly at home, sometimes we were a little jealous because of the comparison. It was just that we felt like we had to outdo each other.
*2. What is your earliest memory that involves rivalry or strong comparison in the family?*
My earliest memory is about grades. When the results came out in school, everyone at home would look at who had the highest marks. I felt that if it was my work, then my work was important. It was a small thing, but it took us a long time. I was always obsessed with proving myself in such situations.
*3. Is there still competition or comparison — and how does it feel?*
It’s not so much anymore, but sometimes it happens over small things. It doesn't feel as raw as it used to. Now we both understand that we are different, and comparing is useless. Now if there is any comparison, it makes me laugh more, not hurt.
*4. What positive things did this rivalry teach you about yourself?*
It taught me how to handle jealousy. I found it necessary to speak up for myself, otherwise I will be ignored. And most importantly, a sense of space and boundaries. Now that I am a paradise, I don't need to fight the world to make my own identity.
*5. What do you wish could be different from how this rivalry manifests itself?*
I wish we had supported each other instead of comparing as children. If parents had been a little more balanced and we had done things differently, then the rivalry wouldn't have been so intense. Now it seems that a little kindness and justice makes everything easier.
*6. If you could talk to your younger self in a moment of intense hostility, what would you say?*
I would say to my younger self: "You are not a work if someone's marks are higher than yours, not by comparison to your value, but by your effort. And yes, your sister is not your hostility, Wu will also be confused, you will be more than you".
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