#earn activity 1. Have you ever given something valuable to someone in a relationship? Yes, I often gave dresses or bags as gifts. They were important to me because when the person I liked used my gift, I wanted them to remember me. 2. If that relationship ended, would you want that thing back? Why or why not? No, I would never take my gifts back. In my opinion, a gift should never be returned. I feel it is very wrong to take back something you once gave, and I believe in self-respect.
3. Do you see gifts in relationships more like love, investment, or a one-time gift? I see gifts as a form of love. In relationships, people should give gifts according to their capacity. Gifts increase love. The price doesn’t matter—even a cheap gift is still a gift. Once I give something, it becomes theirs, and I have no connection to it anymore. 4. Are there conditions that would make you take back what you gave? Yes, there is only one condition. If an engagement breaks, then the ring should be returned. Because when the relationship ends, its symbol should also be returned. 5. What’s your general stand on “taking back what you’ve given”? My opinion is that except for an engagement ring, no gift should ever be taken back. It depends on the situation, but generally, I am against taking gifts back. 6. If you received something valuable and later had to give it back, how would you feel? I would feel at peace returning it because I wouldn’t want to keep any memory or sign of that person with me.