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#InfidelityEdge
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Whenever I heard cheating or infidelity I always asked myself why there are people make mistakes from their relationships.
But when I'm married I understand many things or flaws of every couple. Being married is not a perfect relationships
Everyday we learned from our partners it's not easy process. We learned their attitude and characteristics that make us learn to avoid things that they don't like to avoid arguments and fights.
Have you been there yourself or seen it shatter friends?
When in my younger years friendship have many conflicts and trust is something important. But those years when we were young and don't know others attitude and we don't expect it too. And time goes by we learned so many things in life
Would you forgive cheating?
No I will not forgive cheating. because it's a choice you know from the start you have a choice to stay away and never came back for that person because it might shattered your relationships.
What's the absolute line that can't be crossed for you?
Maybe when I needed attention then you ignore my cravings for your time and you have a special time to your friends as if I'm nothing to you. I can understand you have to spent time with your friends but when it my time to ask for it I just want you to give it to me. Because time for me is special.
Share if you're the forgiving type or done-at-first-sight, plus your personal reasons from life lessons, culture, or past vibes. Drop at least 10 full sentences on your timeline saying your stance and why.
I'm a forgiving type but when I'm full of a repeating mistakes. I think it's over and prepare myself to leave you. Maybe it's not about cheating but my experience with my hubby is different. He was a heavy drinker of alcohol when he was younger specially spending time with his friends and even forgets me. But I let it slide but as years by I'm already exhausted of the repeating routine and drinking with his friends every night after their work.
Until one night he was very drunk and he became a little violent from that time. And let me think overnight I haven't slept thinking to leave him already. The next morning he saw everything was a messed. The chair tables was being thrown. There were broken things on the floor and he didn't remembered anything that he did it. I just look at him then little by little he remembered then hug me and crying telling me not to leave him. But I felt numb. I don't even cry I don't feel anything. I keep quiet. But eventually my heart forgives. I pity when he hugged and cried. Then he kept his promised for almost 4 months he didn't drink and I'm happy about it. And when he drinks with moderation only.
#earn
Whenever I heard cheating or infidelity I always asked myself why there are people make mistakes from their relationships.
But when I'm married I understand many things or flaws of every couple. Being married is not a perfect relationships
Everyday we learned from our partners it's not easy process. We learned their attitude and characteristics that make us learn to avoid things that they don't like to avoid arguments and fights.
Have you been there yourself or seen it shatter friends?
When in my younger years friendship have many conflicts and trust is something important. But those years when we were young and don't know others attitude and we don't expect it too. And time goes by we learned so many things in life
Would you forgive cheating?
No I will not forgive cheating. because it's a choice you know from the start you have a choice to stay away and never came back for that person because it might shattered your relationships.
What's the absolute line that can't be crossed for you?
Maybe when I needed attention then you ignore my cravings for your time and you have a special time to your friends as if I'm nothing to you. I can understand you have to spent time with your friends but when it my time to ask for it I just want you to give it to me. Because time for me is special.
Share if you're the forgiving type or done-at-first-sight, plus your personal reasons from life lessons, culture, or past vibes. Drop at least 10 full sentences on your timeline saying your stance and why.
I'm a forgiving type but when I'm full of a repeating mistakes. I think it's over and prepare myself to leave you. Maybe it's not about cheating but my experience with my hubby is different. He was a heavy drinker of alcohol when he was younger specially spending time with his friends and even forgets me. But I let it slide but as years by I'm already exhausted of the repeating routine and drinking with his friends every night after their work.
Until one night he was very drunk and he became a little violent from that time. And let me think overnight I haven't slept thinking to leave him already. The next morning he saw everything was a messed. The chair tables was being thrown. There were broken things on the floor and he didn't remembered anything that he did it. I just look at him then little by little he remembered then hug me and crying telling me not to leave him. But I felt numb. I don't even cry I don't feel anything. I keep quiet. But eventually my heart forgives. I pity when he hugged and cried. Then he kept his promised for almost 4 months he didn't drink and I'm happy about it. And when he drinks with moderation only.
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I admire your compassion for forgiving when he changed, but your numbness after the violent night is a clear signal to put safety first.
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Thank you so much, yes I think it all over again from the time I've made my decision but he proved he changed. And I realized it's part of all to make our relationship strong.
