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#JudgyCoupleHabits
We’ve all seen those couple habits that make us side-eye. Some are cute one time, others make you wanna scream inside. Psychology calls this “social mirroring” – we measure what we secretly desire or fear to become! This isn't being mean; it's laughing at relationship quirks we all notice. What couple behavior do you pretend to hate, but actually study? Drop it below. Keep it fun, not personal!
TASK:
1. Pick ONE habit: Name a specific couple behavior you secretly judge
2. Why it bugs you: Why does it get under your skin?
3. Secret confession: Do you lowkey envy it or fear becoming them? Please explain.
ATTACHMENT: PAPER/PEN/COLOR MEDIA
Draw a pair of eyes looking straight at you:
RIGHT EYE OPEN : Write "GOALS" below it
LEFT EYE CLOSED : Write "CRINGE" below it
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Rules & Reminders:
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- COMMENT your answer below with tag #JudgyCoupleHabits + mention
- I read submissions one by one, and I understand those copied or rephrased entries. If this happens again, you will be blocked and will no longer be able to participate in any future activities
- Closes at 10 entries.
- Failure to follow any of the given rules may be subject to disqualification or deduction of rewards!
VERY VERY IMPORTANT NOTES FOR THIS ACTIVITY:
BASE REWARD is 300,000 MLX per participant. Duplicate entries won’t be entertained .
***I set the comments to be visible only after 72 hours. This activity will officially close once the comments are made public. This approach is intended to be fair to those who participate early. I typically provide feedback on each entry, detailing any deductions. However, I've noticed that some participants submit their entries after the comments are visible, which allows them to benefit from insights that others may have missed. This policy aims to ensure a level playing field for all participants.***
1. DISQUALIFICATION
• Posting inside the group/Commenting the link to a post
• Entries out of topic
• NOT subscribed to
• COPIED or REPHRASED entries
• Entries from someone with more than 1 Tangled account
2. DEDUCTIONS
• 30k - Failure to include any or all of the ff: correct tag #JudgyCoupleHabits and mentions:
• 30k-100k - Failure to follow the task format and explain in complete thought
• 30k – Failure to include the required phrase
• 100k - Failure to follow the required correct attachment ( minor mistakes = deductions only )
3. ALL deductions from rule-breakers will be split evenly among participants who followed every rule.
In cases where the deductions are significantly larger and the participants who followed the rules do not exceed half of the capped entries, a portion of the deduction will be allocated to standout entries. Meanwhile, those who complied with the rules will also receive their share.
We’ve all seen those couple habits that make us side-eye. Some are cute one time, others make you wanna scream inside. Psychology calls this “social mirroring” – we measure what we secretly desire or fear to become! This isn't being mean; it's laughing at relationship quirks we all notice. What couple behavior do you pretend to hate, but actually study? Drop it below. Keep it fun, not personal!
TASK:
1. Pick ONE habit: Name a specific couple behavior you secretly judge
2. Why it bugs you: Why does it get under your skin?
3. Secret confession: Do you lowkey envy it or fear becoming them? Please explain.
ATTACHMENT: PAPER/PEN/COLOR MEDIA
Draw a pair of eyes looking straight at you:
RIGHT EYE OPEN : Write "GOALS" below it
LEFT EYE CLOSED : Write "CRINGE" below it
Include
Rules & Reminders:
- Pink/Grey BADGES (5+ marketplace badges) only
- Be subscribed to
- COMMENT your answer below with tag #JudgyCoupleHabits + mention
- I read submissions one by one, and I understand those copied or rephrased entries. If this happens again, you will be blocked and will no longer be able to participate in any future activities
- Closes at 10 entries.
- Failure to follow any of the given rules may be subject to disqualification or deduction of rewards!
VERY VERY IMPORTANT NOTES FOR THIS ACTIVITY:
BASE REWARD is 300,000 MLX per participant. Duplicate entries won’t be entertained .
***I set the comments to be visible only after 72 hours. This activity will officially close once the comments are made public. This approach is intended to be fair to those who participate early. I typically provide feedback on each entry, detailing any deductions. However, I've noticed that some participants submit their entries after the comments are visible, which allows them to benefit from insights that others may have missed. This policy aims to ensure a level playing field for all participants.***
1. DISQUALIFICATION
• Posting inside the group/Commenting the link to a post
• Entries out of topic
• NOT subscribed to
• COPIED or REPHRASED entries
• Entries from someone with more than 1 Tangled account
2. DEDUCTIONS
• 30k - Failure to include any or all of the ff: correct tag #JudgyCoupleHabits and mentions:
• 30k-100k - Failure to follow the task format and explain in complete thought
• 30k – Failure to include the required phrase
• 100k - Failure to follow the required correct attachment ( minor mistakes = deductions only )
3. ALL deductions from rule-breakers will be split evenly among participants who followed every rule.
In cases where the deductions are significantly larger and the participants who followed the rules do not exceed half of the capped entries, a portion of the deduction will be allocated to standout entries. Meanwhile, those who complied with the rules will also receive their share.
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Thank you all for your enthusiastic participation in the #JudgyCoupleHabits activity! It’s truly fascinating to see how many of us can relate to those quirky couple habits that make us raise an eyebrow. Your candid contributions have not only shed light on the idiosyncrasies of relationships but have also created a wonderful sense of community among us.
As we wrap up this activity, I encourage you to keep reflecting on the delightful quirks of love and relationships. Who knows? You might discover that some of those “judged” habits aren’t so bad after all!
Now, onto the rewards: I’m pleased to announce that prizes have been sent to all eligible entries. Out of 10 submissions, only 2 perfectly adhered to the rules, while 1 entry was disqualified for being a direct copy/rephrasing of another. The remaining submissions incurred some deductions, which I've noted as a reply to your submitted links.
The 300k mlx from the disqualified participant will be shared between
TOTAL PAYOUT: 3,000,000 MLX
As we wrap up this activity, I encourage you to keep reflecting on the delightful quirks of love and relationships. Who knows? You might discover that some of those “judged” habits aren’t so bad after all!
Now, onto the rewards: I’m pleased to announce that prizes have been sent to all eligible entries. Out of 10 submissions, only 2 perfectly adhered to the rules, while 1 entry was disqualified for being a direct copy/rephrasing of another. The remaining submissions incurred some deductions, which I've noted as a reply to your submitted links.
The 300k mlx from the disqualified participant will be shared between
TOTAL PAYOUT: 3,000,000 MLX
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ACTIVITY CLOSED! No longer accepting submissions as capped entries are all filled.
#JudgyCoupleHabits
“Eyes rendered judgment”
1. Habit I secretly judge:
Couples who constantly post every tiny detail of their relationship online—every meal, every outing, every “we’re so perfect” moment.
2. Why it bugs me:
It starts to feel less like a real connection and more like a performance. When everything is shared, it makes me wonder if they’re enjoying the moment or just curating it. It can come off as trying too hard to prove something.
3. Secret confession:
A little bit of both. I might lowkey envy how openly expressive they are—it takes confidence to show your relationship like that. But I also fear becoming that person who needs validation from others instead of feeling secure privately.
“Eyes rendered judgment”
1. Habit I secretly judge:
Couples who constantly post every tiny detail of their relationship online—every meal, every outing, every “we’re so perfect” moment.
2. Why it bugs me:
It starts to feel less like a real connection and more like a performance. When everything is shared, it makes me wonder if they’re enjoying the moment or just curating it. It can come off as trying too hard to prove something.
3. Secret confession:
A little bit of both. I might lowkey envy how openly expressive they are—it takes confidence to show your relationship like that. But I also fear becoming that person who needs validation from others instead of feeling secure privately.
#JudgyCoupleHabits + mention
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+ “Eyes rendered judgment”
1. One habit I secretly judge:
When I see couples, I often start thinking about how long they have been married and how much understanding they must have between them. I also observe how well they understand each other in daily life and what kind of bond they share.
2. Why it bugs me:
What really bothers me is when there is constant fighting and misunderstandings between husband and wife over small things. The husband getting angry again and again, or arguments happening all the time, makes me feel very uncomfortable. Especially when a woman leaves her home, her siblings, and everything behind to start a new life — I feel such situations are very painful and unfair.
3. Secret confession:
Honestly, I am thankful to Allah that I am someone who values people and forgives easily. I always try to control my anger because I never want to lose my humanity. I am scared that if I don’t control myself, anger
might grow inside me, so I constantly try to stay calm and patient.
and
+ “Eyes rendered judgment”
1. One habit I secretly judge:
When I see couples, I often start thinking about how long they have been married and how much understanding they must have between them. I also observe how well they understand each other in daily life and what kind of bond they share.
2. Why it bugs me:
What really bothers me is when there is constant fighting and misunderstandings between husband and wife over small things. The husband getting angry again and again, or arguments happening all the time, makes me feel very uncomfortable. Especially when a woman leaves her home, her siblings, and everything behind to start a new life — I feel such situations are very painful and unfair.
3. Secret confession:
Honestly, I am thankful to Allah that I am someone who values people and forgives easily. I always try to control my anger because I never want to lose my humanity. I am scared that if I don’t control myself, anger
might grow inside me, so I constantly try to stay calm and patient.
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#JudgyCoupleHabits + mention
and
+ “Eyes rendered judgment”
1. One habit I secretly judge:
When I’m sitting in a restaurant and I see a couple eating, I notice whether they are sharing one plate or eating separately. If they eat from the same plate, I judge that they have a lot of love. If they eat separately, I feel like their love is a little less.
2. Why it bugs me:
One habit I really don’t like is when couples fight loudly in public. When I’m riding on a bike with my husband, I sometimes see couples arguing so loudly that everyone can hear them. If this ever happened to me, I would feel very hurt. It might even damage the relationship for me.
3. Secret confession:
I feel scared sometimes because when I get angry, I can lose control and shout loudly. I fear that if I don’t control my anger, something wrong could happen in my relationship.
and
+ “Eyes rendered judgment”
1. One habit I secretly judge:
When I’m sitting in a restaurant and I see a couple eating, I notice whether they are sharing one plate or eating separately. If they eat from the same plate, I judge that they have a lot of love. If they eat separately, I feel like their love is a little less.
2. Why it bugs me:
One habit I really don’t like is when couples fight loudly in public. When I’m riding on a bike with my husband, I sometimes see couples arguing so loudly that everyone can hear them. If this ever happened to me, I would feel very hurt. It might even damage the relationship for me.
3. Secret confession:
I feel scared sometimes because when I get angry, I can lose control and shout loudly. I fear that if I don’t control my anger, something wrong could happen in my relationship.
It's very hot here and my brain wasn't working because of the heat, so I made a mistake.
It's fine, I know you do well in my other activities. Just be extra careful next time.
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#JudgyCoupleHabits
#earn activity
1. Choose a habit:
I find couples who lie about every little thing really weird and then 2 minutes later start making up “best couple” stories 😅
2. Why it ruins you:
This thing seems confusing. So much fighting on one side and perfect on the other… It seems like reality and social media are going completely against each other 🤦♂️
3. Secret confession:
To be honest, I’m a little scared that my relationship might end up like this in the future 😬 But at the same time, I’m curious as to who stays together even after fighting so much… Marriage strengthens their bond 💭
Tagg
#earn activity
1. Choose a habit:
I find couples who lie about every little thing really weird and then 2 minutes later start making up “best couple” stories 😅
2. Why it ruins you:
This thing seems confusing. So much fighting on one side and perfect on the other… It seems like reality and social media are going completely against each other 🤦♂️
3. Secret confession:
To be honest, I’m a little scared that my relationship might end up like this in the future 😬 But at the same time, I’m curious as to who stays together even after fighting so much… Marriage strengthens their bond 💭
Tagg
#JudgyCoupleHabits
#earn activity
1. Pick a habit:
I find couples who call each other baby, jaan, shona all the time weird - even in public 😅
2. Why it ruins you:
Sometimes it goes overboard, like not everything needs to be so sweet. It looks a little weird in public and it seems like it's just showing off 🙈
3. Secret confession:
To be honest, I'm a little jealous too 😏 Because I wish someone would give me that much importance. But at the same time, I'm also afraid that I won't be that much myself jaan 😂
The eyes have spoken the verdict 👀
Tagg
#earn activity
1. Pick a habit:
I find couples who call each other baby, jaan, shona all the time weird - even in public 😅
2. Why it ruins you:
Sometimes it goes overboard, like not everything needs to be so sweet. It looks a little weird in public and it seems like it's just showing off 🙈
3. Secret confession:
To be honest, I'm a little jealous too 😏 Because I wish someone would give me that much importance. But at the same time, I'm also afraid that I won't be that much myself jaan 😂
The eyes have spoken the verdict 👀
Tagg
#JudgyCoupleHabits
Eyes rendered judgment
1. Pick ONE habit: Ali Ayesha
Public over-affection — when couples unnecessarily display their closeness in gatherings, like constantly sitting glued together, holding hands all the time, and then posting the same moments repeatedly on their WhatsApp status.
2. Why it bugs me:
It bothers me because everything has a time and place. In social gatherings, simplicity and decency look more graceful. When someone intentionally tries to show off their relationship, it doesn’t feel natural — it comes across as forced and a bit like showing off.
3. Secret confession:
Honestly, I do feel a bit curious sometimes — is their bond really that strong or is it just for show? A small part of me thinks maybe their confidence and openness is a good thing, but still, I wouldn’t want to be like that myself. I prefer a simple and private kind of love.
I tag
Eyes rendered judgment
1. Pick ONE habit: Ali Ayesha
Public over-affection — when couples unnecessarily display their closeness in gatherings, like constantly sitting glued together, holding hands all the time, and then posting the same moments repeatedly on their WhatsApp status.
2. Why it bugs me:
It bothers me because everything has a time and place. In social gatherings, simplicity and decency look more graceful. When someone intentionally tries to show off their relationship, it doesn’t feel natural — it comes across as forced and a bit like showing off.
3. Secret confession:
Honestly, I do feel a bit curious sometimes — is their bond really that strong or is it just for show? A small part of me thinks maybe their confidence and openness is a good thing, but still, I wouldn’t want to be like that myself. I prefer a simple and private kind of love.
I tag
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#JudgyCoupleHabits
Eyes rendered judgment.
Let's see the questions,
1. One habit I judge,
Couples who constantly post overly intimate or “perfect” moments on social media,like every small outing or emotional moment turned into a public display.
2. Why it bugs me,
It can feel a bit performative, like the relationship is being validated more by others’ reactions than by what’s actually happening between the two people. It also creates this unrealistic standard of “perfect love” that doesn’t show the real work, disagreements, or quiet moments.
3. Secret confession,
There’s a mix of both envy and fear. Envy, because a part of me wonders what it would feel like to be that openly expressive and proud of a relationship without holding back.
Fear, because I wouldn’t want my relationship to become dependent on external validation or lose its privacy and depth. I would rather have something real and grounded, even if it’s less visible.
Eyes rendered judgment.
Let's see the questions,
1. One habit I judge,
Couples who constantly post overly intimate or “perfect” moments on social media,like every small outing or emotional moment turned into a public display.
2. Why it bugs me,
It can feel a bit performative, like the relationship is being validated more by others’ reactions than by what’s actually happening between the two people. It also creates this unrealistic standard of “perfect love” that doesn’t show the real work, disagreements, or quiet moments.
3. Secret confession,
There’s a mix of both envy and fear. Envy, because a part of me wonders what it would feel like to be that openly expressive and proud of a relationship without holding back.
Fear, because I wouldn’t want my relationship to become dependent on external validation or lose its privacy and depth. I would rather have something real and grounded, even if it’s less visible.
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#JudgyCoupleHabits
Habit:
“Matching outfits / same dressing couple” 👕👗
Why it bugs you:
Honestly, sometimes it feels a bit over the top
It seems like they’re always trying to prove that they’re a “perfect couple.”
Especially when everything matches all the time—same colors, same style everywhere.
Secret Confession:
Lowkey… it actually looks kind of cute too
Sometimes I wish someone would match outfits with me like that.
But at the same time, I worry about losing my individuality.
Habit:
“Matching outfits / same dressing couple” 👕👗
Why it bugs you:
Honestly, sometimes it feels a bit over the top
It seems like they’re always trying to prove that they’re a “perfect couple.”
Especially when everything matches all the time—same colors, same style everywhere.
Secret Confession:
Lowkey… it actually looks kind of cute too
Sometimes I wish someone would match outfits with me like that.
But at the same time, I worry about losing my individuality.
1. The Habit: The Two-in-One Social Media Account
You’ve seen them—those accounts named something like Juan Maria Dela Cruz. They share one profile, one password, and one inbox. When you send a message, you’re never quite sure who you’re actually talking to. It’s like they’ve totally merged into one human being!
2. Why it bugs me
I’m all about protecting my peace and having my own space, so this feels a bit much for me. It’s like, what happened to being your own person? I love staying organized and having my own things, so seeing two people share one digital life feels a little suffocating. It’s like they gave up their independence for a login, and I just want to tell them, It’s okay to have your own apps!
3. Secret Confession: I’m actually impressed by the trust
I’ll be honest, I really don’t like it because I value my me time way too much to share everything like that. But at the same time, I’m kind of impressed by the total transparency. Most people are so private nowadays, but these couples have zero secrets from each other. While I’m over here enjoying my quiet walks and my own space, they’ve found this all-in trust that you don't see very often. It’s not for me, but that kind of radical honesty is actually a pretty big deal!
#JudgyCoupleHabits
“Eyes rendered judgment”
You’ve seen them—those accounts named something like Juan Maria Dela Cruz. They share one profile, one password, and one inbox. When you send a message, you’re never quite sure who you’re actually talking to. It’s like they’ve totally merged into one human being!
2. Why it bugs me
I’m all about protecting my peace and having my own space, so this feels a bit much for me. It’s like, what happened to being your own person? I love staying organized and having my own things, so seeing two people share one digital life feels a little suffocating. It’s like they gave up their independence for a login, and I just want to tell them, It’s okay to have your own apps!
3. Secret Confession: I’m actually impressed by the trust
I’ll be honest, I really don’t like it because I value my me time way too much to share everything like that. But at the same time, I’m kind of impressed by the total transparency. Most people are so private nowadays, but these couples have zero secrets from each other. While I’m over here enjoying my quiet walks and my own space, they’ve found this all-in trust that you don't see very often. It’s not for me, but that kind of radical honesty is actually a pretty big deal!
#JudgyCoupleHabits
“Eyes rendered judgment”
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#JudgyCoupleHabits
“Eyes rendered judgment”
1. Pick ONE habit:
Couples who constantly post each other on social media—like every small moment becomes a public update.
2. Why it bugs you:
It feels a bit performative to me, like the relationship is being shown more than it’s being lived. I sometimes question whether it’s about genuine connection or just validation from others.
3. Secret confession:
If I’m being real… I probably lowkey envy the confidence behind it. Being that open and expressive without overthinking what people will say takes a certain kind of freedom. At the same time, I think I fear becoming too dependent on outside approval in a relationship, where moments feel incomplete unless they’re shared online.
I am not good in drawing but I tried for you.
“Eyes rendered judgment”
1. Pick ONE habit:
Couples who constantly post each other on social media—like every small moment becomes a public update.
2. Why it bugs you:
It feels a bit performative to me, like the relationship is being shown more than it’s being lived. I sometimes question whether it’s about genuine connection or just validation from others.
3. Secret confession:
If I’m being real… I probably lowkey envy the confidence behind it. Being that open and expressive without overthinking what people will say takes a certain kind of freedom. At the same time, I think I fear becoming too dependent on outside approval in a relationship, where moments feel incomplete unless they’re shared online.
I am not good in drawing but I tried for you.
