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Does your circle inspire you or drain you?
I have learned that one of the most important choices you will ever make is deciding who gets access to your life.
We like to believe we can surround ourselves with anyone and their energy will not affect us. But it does. The conversations you have, the attitudes you listen to, and the behaviors you tolerate all influence your thoughts. Those thoughts create emotions, those emotions influence actions, and those actions eventually create results.
I see people who genuinely want to create an amazing life, yet they continually surround themselves with people who complain, judge, blame, and live as the victim of everything happening around them. They call it venting, but when venting becomes the same conversation every day without accountability or action, it becomes a pattern.
And patterns create energy.
You may believe you are helping someone by constantly absorbing their catabolic energy. But there comes a point when helping them starts hurting you. Compassion does not require unlimited access. You can care about someone and still create boundaries.
Become aware of how you feel after spending time with the people around you. Do you feel inspired, challenged, supported, and energized? Or do you leave feeling drained, frustrated, negative, and smaller?
Your circle does not have to be perfect. But it should not consistently pull you away from the person you are working to become.
Choose your circle intentionally.
Protect your energy.
And keep becoming more of who you truly are.
I invite you to check out my other ideas in my books sold on Amazon. They have already helped thousands worldwide.
– Coach Mike
EDIT Your GOALS
Every
Day
Internal
Thoughts
Guarantee
Our
Absolute
Life
Situations
#protect #energy #intention #circle #become
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I have learned that one of the most important choices you will ever make is deciding who gets access to your life.
We like to believe we can surround ourselves with anyone and their energy will not affect us. But it does. The conversations you have, the attitudes you listen to, and the behaviors you tolerate all influence your thoughts. Those thoughts create emotions, those emotions influence actions, and those actions eventually create results.
I see people who genuinely want to create an amazing life, yet they continually surround themselves with people who complain, judge, blame, and live as the victim of everything happening around them. They call it venting, but when venting becomes the same conversation every day without accountability or action, it becomes a pattern.
And patterns create energy.
You may believe you are helping someone by constantly absorbing their catabolic energy. But there comes a point when helping them starts hurting you. Compassion does not require unlimited access. You can care about someone and still create boundaries.
Become aware of how you feel after spending time with the people around you. Do you feel inspired, challenged, supported, and energized? Or do you leave feeling drained, frustrated, negative, and smaller?
Your circle does not have to be perfect. But it should not consistently pull you away from the person you are working to become.
Choose your circle intentionally.
Protect your energy.
And keep becoming more of who you truly are.
I invite you to check out my other ideas in my books sold on Amazon. They have already helped thousands worldwide.
– Coach Mike
EDIT Your GOALS
Every
Day
Internal
Thoughts
Guarantee
Our
Absolute
Life
Situations
#protect #energy #intention #circle #become
Background Photo Credit:
Unknown
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