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1. What does “stupid in love” mean to you?
To me, “stupid in love” means loving someone so deeply that you forget your own value. People use this phrase when they see someone giving endless chances, forgiving too much, and holding on even when they are hurting.
2. Have you ever experienced “attachment overinvestment”?
Yes. I cared more than the other person did. I always made the effort, started conversations, and tried to fix everything. It hurt because my love was genuine, but it wasn't always appreciated. It taught me that love should be mutual, not one-sided.
3. Do you think being “stupid in love” is weakness OR strength?
I think it is a strength. Loving deeply shows kindness, loyalty, and a beautiful heart. The real strength is learning to love others without losing yourself in the process.
4. What’s YOUR advice to someone who loves too much than expected?
Never lose your self-respect for love. Care deeply, but remember your worth. A healthy relationship should bring peace, trust, and effort from both sides. Love others, but don't forget to love yourself too.
"I'm not stupid in love. I'm just loving too hard."
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1️. What does “stupid in love” mean to you? What do you think people are trying to say when they use that phrase?
Stupid in love mean to me that I totally ignore me and warning sign which shows me that he's the red flag, i ignore all those things, i start to sacrifice my self respect and i start to always Make an apology even when I'm not wrong.
2. Have you ever experienced “attachment overinvestment” (loving someone more than they love you)? Describe what it felt like.
Yeah I've such experience with my husband as obviously i can see that he's not loved me or care me as i do to him, or sometimes i think that maybe woman do more love then man but believe me sometime i realized that he's only in the wedding relationship while I'm in both wedding and love relationship which sucks me mostly.
3. Do you think being “stupid in love” is weakness OR strength? Why do you think that?
I think it's our weakness because we start to lose ourselves, we start to give priority to other's and we start to give up on ourselves then obviously it's the weakness that you start to leave behind yourself.
4. What’s YOUR advice to someone who loves too much than expected? What would you tell them to help?
I give them advice that it's okay to love someone but you know the limits and you've to give priority to yourself not others, you shouldn't sacrifice your self for your love because at least you've your self respect and believe me at the end it's only you who remain.
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1️. What does “stupid in love” mean to you? What do you think people are trying to say when they use that phrase?
Stupid in love mean to me that I totally ignore me and warning sign which shows me that he's the red flag, i ignore all those things, i start to sacrifice my self respect and i start to always Make an apology even when I'm not wrong.
2. Have you ever experienced “attachment overinvestment” (loving someone more than they love you)? Describe what it felt like.
Yeah I've such experience with my husband as obviously i can see that he's not loved me or care me as i do to him, or sometimes i think that maybe woman do more love then man but believe me sometime i realized that he's only in the wedding relationship while I'm in both wedding and love relationship which sucks me mostly.
3. Do you think being “stupid in love” is weakness OR strength? Why do you think that?
I think it's our weakness because we start to lose ourselves, we start to give priority to other's and we start to give up on ourselves then obviously it's the weakness that you start to leave behind yourself.
4. What’s YOUR advice to someone who loves too much than expected? What would you tell them to help?
I give them advice that it's okay to love someone but you know the limits and you've to give priority to yourself not others, you shouldn't sacrifice your self for your love because at least you've your self respect and believe me at the end it's only you who remain.
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1. To me, “stupid in love” means loving someone so much that you always care, forgive, and support them no matter what. People use this phrase when they think someone is giving too much in a relationship.
2. Yes, I have experienced this with my husband. I love him deeply and always want the best for him. Sometimes I worry more, care more, and think about his happiness before my own. It feels emotional, but it also shows how important he is to me.
3. I think being “stupid in love” is a strength, not a weakness. Loving someone sincerely takes courage, patience, and a kind heart.
4. My advice is: love deeply, but never forget your own value. A healthy relationship needs love, respect, and care from both sides.
I’m not stupid in love. I’m just loving too hard. ❤️
