1. When someone wrongs you deeply ( like betrayal, lying, or cheating ), do you feel drawn to FORGIVE ( actively release it ) or FORGET ( let it fade )? What’s your gut reaction? When someone wrongs to me, i try to forget it first not forgive because forgetting that act help me to forgive too like if i can't forget then i can't forgive. For me it's better to forget to move on.
2. Think of a time someone hurt you. Did you end up forgiving them OR forgetting it? What happened? Did it heal you? Mostly in friendship and in relationships they told a lie about me which hurt me like they someone release my secret but i tried to forget the moment when I feel embarrassed and shamed it helps me feel calm and heal as fading such memories are good for me.
3. What’s ONE thing you believe you SHOULD forgive but actually can’t forget? Explain. When my own friend tell a lie a about me to someone i think it could be forgiven because maybe she's in the situation but yeah this can't forget that she tell a lie about me.
4. What’s ONE thing you SHOULD forget but can’t forgive? Explain. If anyone betray me in love or in friendship, it can be forgetting but i can't forgive her to do so because i was loyal to them and what did they to me.....