#OverinvestingInLove g/confessions g/studio 1️⃣ What “stupid…
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1️⃣ What “stupid in love” means to me:
To me, “stupid in love” is what people call someone when they don’t understand emotional depth. They usually mean: you care too much, trust too easily, ignore red flags, or keep loving even when it hurts. But the phrase is often unfair it turns genuine feelings into something negative.
2️⃣ Experience of attachment overinvestment:
Yes, it feels like giving more than you receive. You keep checking on them, overthinking their replies, and hoping things will improve. Even when you’re hurt, you still stay emotionally attached. It feels like your heart is louder than your logic, and letting go feels harder than holding on.
3️⃣ Weakness or strength?
It can be both, but I lean toward strength. Because loving deeply means you are capable of trust, loyalty, and emotional connection. The weakness is not the love itself it’s when it’s not balanced or not returned equally.
4️⃣ Advice to someone who loves too much:
Don’t stop loving, but start valuing yourself in the same way you value them. Pay attention to actions, not just feelings. Set emotional boundaries so your love doesn’t turn into self-hurt. Love deeply, but don’t lose yourself trying to be chosen.
1️⃣ What “stupid in love” means to me:
To me, “stupid in love” is what people call someone when they don’t understand emotional depth. They usually mean: you care too much, trust too easily, ignore red flags, or keep loving even when it hurts. But the phrase is often unfair it turns genuine feelings into something negative.
2️⃣ Experience of attachment overinvestment:
Yes, it feels like giving more than you receive. You keep checking on them, overthinking their replies, and hoping things will improve. Even when you’re hurt, you still stay emotionally attached. It feels like your heart is louder than your logic, and letting go feels harder than holding on.
3️⃣ Weakness or strength?
It can be both, but I lean toward strength. Because loving deeply means you are capable of trust, loyalty, and emotional connection. The weakness is not the love itself it’s when it’s not balanced or not returned equally.
4️⃣ Advice to someone who loves too much:
Don’t stop loving, but start valuing yourself in the same way you value them. Pay attention to actions, not just feelings. Set emotional boundaries so your love doesn’t turn into self-hurt. Love deeply, but don’t lose yourself trying to be chosen.
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