I have two grudges that I still hold: 1๏ธโฃ The first one happened when a friend kept making fun of me and hurt my pride. I want to forget it, but the anger stays because he broke my trust. 2๏ธโฃ The second one is with my brother, who underestimated my hard work and ignored my efforts. I want to forgive him, but it keeps coming back, and the grudge stays in my heart. Now Iโm trying to follow the REACH model: recall the hurt, empathize, offer forgiveness, commit in writing, and practice it consistently.