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#UnsentWords
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Theme:  If you could go back to the time when your past relationship ended, what would you say to your ex? ( If you don’t have an ex, write to an ex-friend. )
 
Every ending leaves something unsaid. Maybe you wish you’d spoken up sooner. Maybe you wish you’d said less. Maybe you want to apologize, explain, set a boundary, or finally say “I’m done” without drama.

This activity is a simple chance to say what you never got to say when your relationship or friendship ended. It’s not about getting them back. It’s not about starting a fight. It’s about letting your past self speak clearly to the person you once cared about.

You don’t need to post this to them. You don’t need to send it anywhere. This is for you—to write it down, release it, and decide what you want to carry forward.

Main goal of the activity
-Give yourself space to say one clear message to your ex (or ex-friend) as if you could go back to the moment things ended.
-Notice what you truly feel: anger, regret, gratitude, relief, closure, or something mixed.
-Practice honesty without obligation—you can say what you mean, without expecting a reply.

TASK: Copy and answer. Please be specific if it’s an ex-bf/gf or ex friend.
1. If I could go back to the day my relationship/friendship ended, this is what I’d say to my ex (or ex-friend):
2. Explain why this message. What happened before for you to say this? Briefly describe the situation, feelings, or events that led to this message.
 
MANDATORY: It's not part of this activity to mention anyone or use your default mention for fellow Tanglers—whoever you mention won't be able to read your comment within 72 hours anyway, so STOP that. Anyone who does will incur a 100k DEDUCTION. TRY ME.
Also, anyone who has a deleted comment (even if you comment again) will not be rewarded.
 
ATTACHMENT:
- On a piece of paper write this legibly and capture it clearly:
Writing this isn’t about changing the past. It’s about freeing myself from what’s stuck. I choose peace   over replaying what’s already done.   #ClosureInWriting
-PROVIDE WHAT IS ONLY ASKED. NOTHING ELSE SHOULD BE INCLUDED
 
Rules & Reminders:
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- COMMENT your answer below with tag #UnsentWords + mention and + these emojis:💔 🕊️ 🚪 ✍️ 🔥 🌱
- I read submissions one by one, and I understand those copied or rephrased entries. If this happens again, you will be blocked and will no longer be able to participate in any future activities will host.
- Closes at 10 entries.                 
- Failure to follow any of the given rules may be subject to disqualification or deduction of rewards!
 
VERY VERY IMPORTANT NOTES FOR THIS ACTIVITY:
BASE REWARD is 300,000 MLX per participant. Duplicate entries won’t be entertained .
***I set the comments to be visible only after 72 hours. This activity will officially close once the comments are made public. This approach is intended to be fair to those who participate early. I typically provide feedback on each entry, detailing any deductions. However, I've noticed that some participants submit their entries after the comments are visible, which allows them to benefit from insights that others may have missed. This policy aims to ensure a level playing field for all participants.***
 
1. DISQUALIFICATION
• Posting inside the group/Commenting the link to a post
• Entries out of topic
• NOT subscribed to upon checking.
• COPIED or REPHRASED entries
• Entries from someone with more than 1 Tangled account
2. DEDUCTIONS
• 30k - Failure to include any or all of the ff: correct tag #UnsentWords and mentions:  and
• 30k-100k - Failure to follow the task format and explain in complete thought
• 30k – Failure to include the required emojis
• 100k - Failure to follow the required correct attachment ( minor mistakes = deductions only )
3. ALL deductions from rule-breakers will be split evenly among participants who followed every rule.
In cases where the deductions are significantly larger and the participants who followed the rules do not exceed half of the capped entries, a portion of the deduction will be allocated to standout entries. Meanwhile, those who complied with the rules will also receive their share.
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Thank you all for participating in the #UnsentWords activity. Your willingness to explore your feelings and express thoughts that were left unspoken is a courageous step towards healing and self-discovery.
 
Every relationship, whether romantic or platonic, shapes who we are, and acknowledging those experiences can help us move forward with clarity and intention. The messages you’ve crafted are not just words; they’re a reflection of your growth, your resilience, and your journey towards closure.
 
Rewards have been sent to eligible entries. Unfortunately, out of the 10 reviewed submissions, only 1 followed the activity guidelines perfectly, the rest incurred deductions for minor and major mistakes.      
 
If you'd like to understand the reasons behind your deductions and where you went wrong, I encourage you to compare your entries with my guidelines. I won't be addressing each mistake individually at this time, as the same issues tend to recur.
 
Deductions stemmed from the following:
1. Tasks not copied completely or rephrased; incomplete answers
2. Failure to include the correct order of these emojis: 💔 🕊️ 🚪 ✍️ 🔥 🌱
3. Any difference in attachment incurred deductions
 
ATTACHMENT:
- On a piece of paper write this legibly and capture it clearly:
Writing this isn’t about changing the past. It’s about freeing myself from what’s stuck. I choose peace  over replaying what’s already done.   #ClosureInWriting
-PROVIDE WHAT IS ONLY ASKED. NOTHING ELSE SHOULD BE INCLUDED
 
The 660k mlx remaining from overall deductions will be distributed as follows:
1.  260k mlx – touseef123 for perfectly following the activity guidelines
2.  200k mlx each (400k) – for following the correct attachment guidelines
 
 
TOTAL PAYOUT: 3,000,000 MLX
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ACTIVITY CLOSED! No longer accepting submissions as capped entries are all filled.
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1. If I could go back to the day my relationship/friendship ended, this is what I’d say to my ex (or ex-friend):
I'd love to say that I wish things could ended differently between us, we shared beautiful memories and then misunderstanding come in between us but before ending it's better we should talk about these and instead of staying silent. I want a different ending.


2. Explain why this message. What happened before for you to say this? Briefly describe the situation, feelings, or events that led to this message.
I want to give this message because I think if our ending was in different way maybe it's easy to move on, easy to accepting and forget about the bad memories also could be easy and most important thing, I got angry on you when you left without talking and then maybe i got my calm and peace but it's okay now i feel okay because i need to move on.

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1 If I could go back to the day my relationship/friendship ended, this is what I’d say to my ex (or ex-friend):
I would tell you that I felt hurt and unheard for a long time. I tried to understand you and keep things okay between us, but I also lost myself in the process. I am not angry anymore, but I accept that what we had cannot continue. I wish we had been more honest earlier, but now I choose to let it go and move forward in peace.

2 Explain why this message. What happened before for you to say this? Briefly describe the situation, feelings, or events that led to this message.
The friendship slowly changed over time. Communication became less, and misunderstandings started to grow. I kept trying to fix things alone, but it never felt balanced. In the end, I felt drained and emotionally distant, which led to the decision to walk away quietly.
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If I could go back to the day our friendship ended, this is what I would say to my former friend:
"I never wanted us to become strangers. Thank you for the beautiful memories and the lessons we shared. Despite the pain, I sincerely wish you happiness and peace. Today, I choose to let go and move forward."
Why this message?
Our friendship ended because of misunderstandings and distance. It hurt for a long time, but I learned that some goodbyes are meant to teach us how to grow stronger and keep moving forward in life. This message is my way of finding peace and closure.

Some goodbyes stay in our hearts forever. Today, I choose peace over pain and gratitude over regret. 💔🕊️🌱
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1. If I could go back to the day my friendship ended, this is what I'd say to my ex-friend:
Thank you for the good memories we shared, but I wish we had been more honest with each other. I won't hold on to the pain anymore. I forgive what happened, and I hope you find happiness. I'm choosing peace and moving forward with my life.

2. Explain why this message. What happened before for you to say this? Briefly describe the situation, feelings, or events that led to this message.
We slowly stopped understanding each other and small misunderstandings turned into distance. Neither of us tried hard enough to fix the friendship, and eventually we went our separate ways. For a long time I carried sadness and questions, but now I realize that some people are only part of one chapter of our lives. This message is my way of letting go with respect instead of anger.
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1. If I could go back to the day my friendship ended, this is what I’d say to my ex-friend:

"I truly valued our friendship, and I wish we had talked honestly instead of letting silence grow between us. I forgive the hurt, and I also forgive myself for the mistakes I made. I hope life brings you happiness, but I’m choosing peace instead of carrying old pain with me. Thank you for the good memories, and goodbye."

2. I chose this message because our friendship slowly faded after repeated misunderstandings and poor communication. Instead of fixing things, we both stayed quiet until we became strangers. For a long time I felt disappointed and confused, but looking back I realize that not every friendship is meant to last forever. This message gives me the closure I never had and reminds me to value honest communication in future relationships.
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1 .If I could go back to the day my friendship ended, this is what I’d say to my ex-friend:
I would say that becoming your friend was a mistake I regret. You were never a true friend, because a real friend doesn’t break trust the way you did. I trusted you with my thoughts and feelings, but you chose to betray that trust. You showed kindness and loyalty to my face, but behind my back, you spoke negatively about me and made false accusations. That is not friendship. I am not angry anymore, but I am done. I choose to walk away with my self-respect and peace.
2 Explain why this message. What happened before for you to say this?
I am saying this because the friendship became painful and dishonest. In the beginning, I believed you were genuine and cared about me, but over time, I started noticing a difference between how you acted in front of me and how you behaved behind my back. You would act like a good friend when we were together, but later I found out that you were spreading negativity, saying hurtful things, and even making accusations that were not true.
This broke my trust deeply, because I value honesty and loyalty in any relationship. It hurt not just because of what was said, but because it came from someone I trusted. I stayed quiet for a long time, hoping things would change, but they didn’t. Eventually, I realized that staying in such a relationship was more harmful than leaving.
This message comes from a place of clarity, not just anger. I needed to acknowledge the truth and accept that this friendship was not healthy for me. By saying this, I am choosing to let go of the pain, protect my peace, and move forward without carrying the weight of what happened. :::
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1. If I could go back to the day my friendship ended, this is what I’d say to my ex-friend:

"Thank you for the good memories we shared. Even though our friendship ended, I learned a lot from knowing you. I wish we had communicated more honestly before things fell apart. I was hurt by how everything ended, but I don't want to carry that hurt forever. I hope you find happiness and peace in your life. I've chosen to move forward, keeping the lessons and letting go of the resentment. Goodbye, and take care."

2. Explain why this message. What happened before for you to say this? Briefly describe the situation, feelings, or events that led to this message.

My friendship ended after several misunderstandings and a lack of communication. Instead of talking openly about our problems, we slowly drifted apart and eventually stopped speaking. At first, I felt disappointed, confused, and sad because I valued the friendship. Over time, I realized that holding onto anger wasn't helping me. This message reflects the closure I wish I had at the time—a chance to express gratitude, acknowledge the hurt, and move forward without bitterness.
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1️⃣. If I could go back to the day my friendship ended, this is what I’d say to my ex-friend:
👉👉Thank you for the good memories we shared, but I wish we had been more honest with each other before things fell apart. I stayed quiet about how hurt I felt because I didn’t want conflict, and that silence only created more distance between us. I don’t hate you, and I don’t regret being your friend. I just wish we had ended things with more understanding instead of misunderstanding. I hope life treats you well, and I’m choosing to move forward with peace rather than carrying resentment.

2️⃣. Explain why this message. What happened before for you to say this? Briefly describe the situation, feelings, or events that led to this message.

👉👉My friendship ended after months of poor communication and unresolved misunderstandings. We slowly stopped talking, and small issues were never discussed openly. I felt hurt, disappointed, and confused because someone I trusted became distant without explanation. Looking back, I realize both of us avoided difficult conversations. This message reflects the closure I wish I had expressed at the time—gratitude for the friendship, honesty about the hurt, and acceptance that not every relationship is meant to last forever.
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This isn't participation; it's a confession, allowing me to feel lighter by sharing my unsaid words.

 >If I could go back to the day my relationship/friendship ended, this is what I’d say to my ex 

I regret not being the person you needed. Losing you felt like losing myself. Though it pains me to see you with another, life continues. I wish I could have been the man you deserved. You were right; my unhealthy state prevented me from being a supportive partner. I dismissed your tears and boundaries, unable to make the changes strong men embrace. I still drink to forget you and cling to old habits, prioritizing my ego over our relationship. It's too late for apologies now that you've found happiness without me ofc. I still miss the innocent girl who loved me despite my flaws, hoping to change me, but my ego prevailed. Sorry Zoya!!😔
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1 If I could go back to the day our friendship ended, this is what I’d say to my ex-friend:
“I’m not angry at you. I’m just hurt that we didn’t try to understand each other. I wish we had talked things through instead of letting everything end in silence.”
2 I would say this because our friendship ended suddenly due to misunderstandings and lack of communication. At that time, both of us were upset and hurt, but the real problem was probably that we stopped talking properly. Now I just want clarity and peace, so there’s no burden left in my heart.