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#UnsentWords
Theme: If you could go back to the time when your past relationship ended, what would you say to your ex? ( If you don’t have an ex, write to an ex-friend. )
Every ending leaves something unsaid. Maybe you wish you’d spoken up sooner. Maybe you wish you’d said less. Maybe you want to apologize, explain, set a boundary, or finally say “I’m done” without drama.
This activity is a simple chance to say what you never got to say when your relationship or friendship ended. It’s not about getting them back. It’s not about starting a fight. It’s about letting your past self speak clearly to the person you once cared about.
You don’t need to post this to them. You don’t need to send it anywhere. This is for you—to write it down, release it, and decide what you want to carry forward.
Main goal of the activity
-Give yourself space to say one clear message to your ex (or ex-friend) as if you could go back to the moment things ended.
-Notice what you truly feel: anger, regret, gratitude, relief, closure, or something mixed.
-Practice honesty without obligation—you can say what you mean, without expecting a reply.
TASK: Copy and answer. Please be specific if it’s an ex-bf/gf or ex friend.
1. If I could go back to the day my relationship/friendship ended, this is what I’d say to my ex (or ex-friend):
2. Explain why this message. What happened before for you to say this? Briefly describe the situation, feelings, or events that led to this message.
MANDATORY: It's not part of this activity to mention anyone or use your default mention for fellow Tanglers—whoever you mention won't be able to read your comment within 72 hours anyway, so STOP that. Anyone who does will incur a 100k DEDUCTION. TRY ME.
Also, anyone who has a deleted comment (even if you comment again) will not be rewarded.
ATTACHMENT:
- On a piece of paper write this legibly and capture it clearly:
Writing this isn’t about changing the past. It’s about freeing myself from what’s stuck. I choose peace over replaying what’s already done. #ClosureInWriting
-PROVIDE WHAT IS ONLY ASKED. NOTHING ELSE SHOULD BE INCLUDED
Rules & Reminders:
- Pink/Grey BADGES (5+ marketplace badges) only
- Be subscribed to
- COMMENT your answer below with tag #UnsentWords + mention
- I read submissions one by one, and I understand those copied or rephrased entries. If this happens again, you will be blocked and will no longer be able to participate in any future activities
- Closes at 10 entries.
- Failure to follow any of the given rules may be subject to disqualification or deduction of rewards!
VERY VERY IMPORTANT NOTES FOR THIS ACTIVITY:
BASE REWARD is 300,000 MLX per participant. Duplicate entries won’t be entertained .
***I set the comments to be visible only after 72 hours. This activity will officially close once the comments are made public. This approach is intended to be fair to those who participate early. I typically provide feedback on each entry, detailing any deductions. However, I've noticed that some participants submit their entries after the comments are visible, which allows them to benefit from insights that others may have missed. This policy aims to ensure a level playing field for all participants.***
1. DISQUALIFICATION
• Posting inside the group/Commenting the link to a post
• Entries out of topic
• NOT subscribed to
• COPIED or REPHRASED entries
• Entries from someone with more than 1 Tangled account
2. DEDUCTIONS
• 30k - Failure to include any or all of the ff: correct tag #UnsentWords and mentions:
• 30k-100k - Failure to follow the task format and explain in complete thought
• 30k – Failure to include the required emojis
• 100k - Failure to follow the required correct attachment ( minor mistakes = deductions only )
3. ALL deductions from rule-breakers will be split evenly among participants who followed every rule.
In cases where the deductions are significantly larger and the participants who followed the rules do not exceed half of the capped entries, a portion of the deduction will be allocated to standout entries. Meanwhile, those who complied with the rules will also receive their share.
Theme: If you could go back to the time when your past relationship ended, what would you say to your ex? ( If you don’t have an ex, write to an ex-friend. )
Every ending leaves something unsaid. Maybe you wish you’d spoken up sooner. Maybe you wish you’d said less. Maybe you want to apologize, explain, set a boundary, or finally say “I’m done” without drama.
This activity is a simple chance to say what you never got to say when your relationship or friendship ended. It’s not about getting them back. It’s not about starting a fight. It’s about letting your past self speak clearly to the person you once cared about.
You don’t need to post this to them. You don’t need to send it anywhere. This is for you—to write it down, release it, and decide what you want to carry forward.
Main goal of the activity
-Give yourself space to say one clear message to your ex (or ex-friend) as if you could go back to the moment things ended.
-Notice what you truly feel: anger, regret, gratitude, relief, closure, or something mixed.
-Practice honesty without obligation—you can say what you mean, without expecting a reply.
TASK: Copy and answer. Please be specific if it’s an ex-bf/gf or ex friend.
1. If I could go back to the day my relationship/friendship ended, this is what I’d say to my ex (or ex-friend):
2. Explain why this message. What happened before for you to say this? Briefly describe the situation, feelings, or events that led to this message.
MANDATORY: It's not part of this activity to mention anyone or use your default mention for fellow Tanglers—whoever you mention won't be able to read your comment within 72 hours anyway, so STOP that. Anyone who does will incur a 100k DEDUCTION. TRY ME.
Also, anyone who has a deleted comment (even if you comment again) will not be rewarded.
ATTACHMENT:
- On a piece of paper write this legibly and capture it clearly:
Writing this isn’t about changing the past. It’s about freeing myself from what’s stuck. I choose peace over replaying what’s already done. #ClosureInWriting
-PROVIDE WHAT IS ONLY ASKED. NOTHING ELSE SHOULD BE INCLUDED
Rules & Reminders:
- Pink/Grey BADGES (5+ marketplace badges) only
- Be subscribed to
- COMMENT your answer below with tag #UnsentWords + mention
- I read submissions one by one, and I understand those copied or rephrased entries. If this happens again, you will be blocked and will no longer be able to participate in any future activities
- Closes at 10 entries.
- Failure to follow any of the given rules may be subject to disqualification or deduction of rewards!
VERY VERY IMPORTANT NOTES FOR THIS ACTIVITY:
BASE REWARD is 300,000 MLX per participant. Duplicate entries won’t be entertained .
***I set the comments to be visible only after 72 hours. This activity will officially close once the comments are made public. This approach is intended to be fair to those who participate early. I typically provide feedback on each entry, detailing any deductions. However, I've noticed that some participants submit their entries after the comments are visible, which allows them to benefit from insights that others may have missed. This policy aims to ensure a level playing field for all participants.***
1. DISQUALIFICATION
• Posting inside the group/Commenting the link to a post
• Entries out of topic
• NOT subscribed to
• COPIED or REPHRASED entries
• Entries from someone with more than 1 Tangled account
2. DEDUCTIONS
• 30k - Failure to include any or all of the ff: correct tag #UnsentWords and mentions:
• 30k-100k - Failure to follow the task format and explain in complete thought
• 30k – Failure to include the required emojis
• 100k - Failure to follow the required correct attachment ( minor mistakes = deductions only )
3. ALL deductions from rule-breakers will be split evenly among participants who followed every rule.
In cases where the deductions are significantly larger and the participants who followed the rules do not exceed half of the capped entries, a portion of the deduction will be allocated to standout entries. Meanwhile, those who complied with the rules will also receive their share.
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