1. To me, βstupid in loveβ means caring so much about someone that you ignore your own feelings and needs. People usually use this phrase when they think someone is giving too much love, trust, or effort to a person who may not deserve it.
2. Yes, I have experienced attachment overinvestment. It felt painful because I was always the one making the effort, checking in, and hoping things would get better. I cared deeply, but sometimes it felt like my feelings were not valued the same way.
3. I think being βstupid in loveβ is both a strength and a weakness. It is a strength because it shows loyalty, kindness, and a big heart. But it can become a weakness when you forget your self-respect and allow yourself to be hurt repeatedly.
4. My advice to someone who loves too much is: never lose yourself while loving someone else. Love with your whole heart, but remember your worth. A healthy relationship should have effort, respect, and care from both sides.