#OverinvestingInLove g/confessions g/studio #earn 1. What…
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1. What does “stupid in love” mean to you? What do you think people are trying to say when they use that phrase?
To me, “stupid in love” means someone is so emotionally invested that they ignore red flags, make sacrifices, and hold on tightly even when it hurts. People usually use the phrase to say someone is blinded by feelings, but I think it often just means they care deeply.
2. Have you ever experienced “attachment overinvestment” (loving someone more than they love you)?
Describe what it felt like.
It feels heavy—like constantly giving your energy, time, and heart while wondering if it’s being valued the same way. It can make you overthink, hope for change, and sometimes lose sight of your own worth.
3. Do you think being “stupid in love” is weakness OR strength? Why do you think that?
I think it’s both. It’s a strength because loving deeply takes courage and vulnerability. But it becomes a weakness when it makes you ignore your boundaries or accept less than you deserve. Love is strongest when it includes self-respect.
4. What’s YOUR advice to someone who loves too much than expected? What would you tell them to help?
Love fully, but don’t lose yourself. If your love costs your peace, dignity, or growth, it may be time to step back. The right person won’t make you feel like you have to beg for effort, care, or respect. Your heart deserves balance, not exhaustion.
#earn
1. What does “stupid in love” mean to you? What do you think people are trying to say when they use that phrase?
To me, “stupid in love” means someone is so emotionally invested that they ignore red flags, make sacrifices, and hold on tightly even when it hurts. People usually use the phrase to say someone is blinded by feelings, but I think it often just means they care deeply.
2. Have you ever experienced “attachment overinvestment” (loving someone more than they love you)?
Describe what it felt like.
It feels heavy—like constantly giving your energy, time, and heart while wondering if it’s being valued the same way. It can make you overthink, hope for change, and sometimes lose sight of your own worth.
3. Do you think being “stupid in love” is weakness OR strength? Why do you think that?
I think it’s both. It’s a strength because loving deeply takes courage and vulnerability. But it becomes a weakness when it makes you ignore your boundaries or accept less than you deserve. Love is strongest when it includes self-respect.
4. What’s YOUR advice to someone who loves too much than expected? What would you tell them to help?
Love fully, but don’t lose yourself. If your love costs your peace, dignity, or growth, it may be time to step back. The right person won’t make you feel like you have to beg for effort, care, or respect. Your heart deserves balance, not exhaustion.
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