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What energy do you bring to others?
I think sometimes we make being a better human being much more complicated than it needs to be.
For me, I see three easy starters.
Acceptance. Approval. Appreciation.
Start with acceptance.
People do not need to become who you think they should be before you can accept them for who they are. One of the greatest lessons I have learned is that I cannot change another person. I can influence them, but real change must come from within them.
And strangely enough, when people feel accepted instead of judged, they often become more willing to grow.
Then comes approval.
Instead of constantly looking for what someone is doing wrong, start looking for what they are doing right. There is always something. Sometimes you just have to become intentional about seeing it.
What you focus on grows in your awareness.
Finally, appreciation.
Think about the people in your life and ask yourself when you last made them feel valuable. Not when you thought it. When you actually expressed it.
Your spouse. Your children. Your friends. Your coworkers. Even the stranger you interact with today.
People want to feel seen. They want to feel heard. They want to know they matter.
So today, practice these three things.
Accept someone without trying to change them.
Approve of something good you see in them.
Appreciate them enough to tell them their value.
You may discover that becoming a better person is not about changing everyone around you.
It is about changing the energy you bring to them.
If this message spoke to you or something within it resonated, I invite you to check out my other ideas in my books sold on Amazon. They have already helped thousands worldwide.
– Coach Mike
EDIT Your GOALS
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#accept #approve #appreciate #better #person
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Luke Peterson
I think sometimes we make being a better human being much more complicated than it needs to be.
For me, I see three easy starters.
Acceptance. Approval. Appreciation.
Start with acceptance.
People do not need to become who you think they should be before you can accept them for who they are. One of the greatest lessons I have learned is that I cannot change another person. I can influence them, but real change must come from within them.
And strangely enough, when people feel accepted instead of judged, they often become more willing to grow.
Then comes approval.
Instead of constantly looking for what someone is doing wrong, start looking for what they are doing right. There is always something. Sometimes you just have to become intentional about seeing it.
What you focus on grows in your awareness.
Finally, appreciation.
Think about the people in your life and ask yourself when you last made them feel valuable. Not when you thought it. When you actually expressed it.
Your spouse. Your children. Your friends. Your coworkers. Even the stranger you interact with today.
People want to feel seen. They want to feel heard. They want to know they matter.
So today, practice these three things.
Accept someone without trying to change them.
Approve of something good you see in them.
Appreciate them enough to tell them their value.
You may discover that becoming a better person is not about changing everyone around you.
It is about changing the energy you bring to them.
If this message spoke to you or something within it resonated, I invite you to check out my other ideas in my books sold on Amazon. They have already helped thousands worldwide.
– Coach Mike
EDIT Your GOALS
Every
Day
Internal
Thoughts
Guarantee
Our
Absolute
Life
Situations
#accept #approve #appreciate #better #person
Background Photo Credit:
Luke Peterson
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What do you feed your mind?
What you repeatedly feed your mind becomes the lens you live through. If you constantly feed it stress, complaining, blame, and negativity, your mind begins to expect life through that same catabolic energy. Then everything starts to look harder, more frustrating, and more against you. Most people think venting helps them feel better, but most of the time it is not relief, it is reinforcement. It is programming the mind to keep returning to the same catabolic state.
If you want your life to change, you have to become more intentional with what you allow yourself to focus on, feel, and repeat. Your thoughts shape your emotions, your emotions influence your actions, and your actions create your results. That means the energy you practice today becomes the life you experience tomorrow.
This is why awareness matters so much. You have to catch yourself in the moment and ask, “What am I feeding my mind right now?” Is it blame or responsibility? Is it resentment or compassion? Is it fear or trust? Is it frustration or gratitude?
You do not control any situation in life, but you absolutely influence the energy you bring into it. And that changes everything.
If you want to start reprogramming your mind today, practice gratitude, empathy, compassion, forgiveness, and personal responsibility several times throughout your day. Do it on purpose. Not once. Repeatedly. Over time, your perception changes, your energy gets lighter, and life becomes more peaceful, clear, and fulfilling.
What you feed grows.
Choose wisely.
If this message spoke to you or something within it resonated, I invite you to check out my other ideas in my books sold on Amazon. They have already helped thousands worldwide.
– Coach Mike
EDIT Your GOALS
Every
Day
Internal
Thoughts
Guarantee
Our
Absolute
Life
Situations
#choose #live #better #mind #growth
Background Photo Credit:
Ashish Kushwaha
What you repeatedly feed your mind becomes the lens you live through. If you constantly feed it stress, complaining, blame, and negativity, your mind begins to expect life through that same catabolic energy. Then everything starts to look harder, more frustrating, and more against you. Most people think venting helps them feel better, but most of the time it is not relief, it is reinforcement. It is programming the mind to keep returning to the same catabolic state.
If you want your life to change, you have to become more intentional with what you allow yourself to focus on, feel, and repeat. Your thoughts shape your emotions, your emotions influence your actions, and your actions create your results. That means the energy you practice today becomes the life you experience tomorrow.
This is why awareness matters so much. You have to catch yourself in the moment and ask, “What am I feeding my mind right now?” Is it blame or responsibility? Is it resentment or compassion? Is it fear or trust? Is it frustration or gratitude?
You do not control any situation in life, but you absolutely influence the energy you bring into it. And that changes everything.
If you want to start reprogramming your mind today, practice gratitude, empathy, compassion, forgiveness, and personal responsibility several times throughout your day. Do it on purpose. Not once. Repeatedly. Over time, your perception changes, your energy gets lighter, and life becomes more peaceful, clear, and fulfilling.
What you feed grows.
Choose wisely.
If this message spoke to you or something within it resonated, I invite you to check out my other ideas in my books sold on Amazon. They have already helped thousands worldwide.
– Coach Mike
EDIT Your GOALS
Every
Day
Internal
Thoughts
Guarantee
Our
Absolute
Life
Situations
#choose #live #better #mind #growth
Background Photo Credit:
Ashish Kushwaha
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Who do you compare to?
One of the greatest traps people fall into is comparison. I see it everywhere. People measuring their life against someone else’s and then wondering why their joy disappears. Comparison quietly steals peace, confidence, and gratitude because it shifts your focus away from your own path and places it on someone else’s journey.
Look around and you will see it constantly. Someone walks into a gym and compares themselves to the person who has been training for years. An employee compares their income to someone higher in the company. People compare education, appearance, personality, success, and status. And most of the time they place themselves on the losing side of that comparison. They assume they are behind, less capable, or not good enough.
But this thinking misses the truth.
Life was never meant to be a competition with other people. Everyone is on a different timeline, with different experiences, different challenges, and different lessons. Comparing two lives is like comparing two completely different tools and expecting them to perform the same job.
The only comparison that actually serves you is the one that measures growth within yourself.
Ask better questions.
Am I wiser than I was before?
Am I stronger mentally and emotionally?
Am I living with more awareness, gratitude, and purpose?
Those are the measurements that matter.
Your journey is not about catching up to someone else. Your journey is about evolving into the best version of yourself. When your focus stays on your own growth, comparison loses its power and progress becomes visible.
So if you feel the urge to compare, redirect it.
Look at who you were yesterday.
Look at who you were last year.
Then commit to becoming just a little better today. That is how real transformation happens.
If this message spoke to you or something within it resonated, I invite you to check out my other ideas in my books sold on Amazon. They have already helped thousands worldwide.
– Coach Mike
EDIT Your GOALS
Every
Day
Internal
Thoughts
Guarantee
Our
Absolute
Life
Situations
#progress #measure #comparison #growth #better
Background Photo Credit:
Ian Taylor
One of the greatest traps people fall into is comparison. I see it everywhere. People measuring their life against someone else’s and then wondering why their joy disappears. Comparison quietly steals peace, confidence, and gratitude because it shifts your focus away from your own path and places it on someone else’s journey.
Look around and you will see it constantly. Someone walks into a gym and compares themselves to the person who has been training for years. An employee compares their income to someone higher in the company. People compare education, appearance, personality, success, and status. And most of the time they place themselves on the losing side of that comparison. They assume they are behind, less capable, or not good enough.
But this thinking misses the truth.
Life was never meant to be a competition with other people. Everyone is on a different timeline, with different experiences, different challenges, and different lessons. Comparing two lives is like comparing two completely different tools and expecting them to perform the same job.
The only comparison that actually serves you is the one that measures growth within yourself.
Ask better questions.
Am I wiser than I was before?
Am I stronger mentally and emotionally?
Am I living with more awareness, gratitude, and purpose?
Those are the measurements that matter.
Your journey is not about catching up to someone else. Your journey is about evolving into the best version of yourself. When your focus stays on your own growth, comparison loses its power and progress becomes visible.
So if you feel the urge to compare, redirect it.
Look at who you were yesterday.
Look at who you were last year.
Then commit to becoming just a little better today. That is how real transformation happens.
If this message spoke to you or something within it resonated, I invite you to check out my other ideas in my books sold on Amazon. They have already helped thousands worldwide.
– Coach Mike
EDIT Your GOALS
Every
Day
Internal
Thoughts
Guarantee
Our
Absolute
Life
Situations
#progress #measure #comparison #growth #better
Background Photo Credit:
Ian Taylor
