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I chose letter D - Burying my pain and moving on alone
Sometimes healing isnβt loud or visible to the world. It doesnβt always look like talking things out, crying endlessly, or leaning on others for comfort. Sometimes, itβs quiet. Almost invisible.
For me, healing meant burying the pain. Not because it didnβt matter or because it didnβt hurt deeply, but because I refused to let it keep controlling me. I took everything that broke me and chose to lay it to rest, somewhere deep within, where it no longer has power over my present.
There was no audience, no explanations, no need for validation. Just me, learning how to breathe again, step by step, on my own terms. It wasnβt easy, and it wasnβt quick, but it was real.
People often say healing should be shared, that we grow through connection and understanding. And maybe thatβs true for some. But sometimes, strength is found in solitude, in carrying your scars quietly and still finding the courage to move forward.
I didnβt forget what happened, and I didnβt magically forgive everything. I simply made a choice that the pain would no longer live inside me the way it once did. And in that choice, I found a different kind of peace. π€
#earn activity
I chose letter D - Burying my pain and moving on alone
Sometimes healing isnβt loud or visible to the world. It doesnβt always look like talking things out, crying endlessly, or leaning on others for comfort. Sometimes, itβs quiet. Almost invisible.
For me, healing meant burying the pain. Not because it didnβt matter or because it didnβt hurt deeply, but because I refused to let it keep controlling me. I took everything that broke me and chose to lay it to rest, somewhere deep within, where it no longer has power over my present.
There was no audience, no explanations, no need for validation. Just me, learning how to breathe again, step by step, on my own terms. It wasnβt easy, and it wasnβt quick, but it was real.
People often say healing should be shared, that we grow through connection and understanding. And maybe thatβs true for some. But sometimes, strength is found in solitude, in carrying your scars quietly and still finding the courage to move forward.
I didnβt forget what happened, and I didnβt magically forgive everything. I simply made a choice that the pain would no longer live inside me the way it once did. And in that choice, I found a different kind of peace. π€
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30 years is long time! This is the finale stage when we need to do this or take this step. Definitely it's a brave decision and we women should take this decision to protect our peace! Thanks for sharing dear, I knew you'll always choose wisely when situations will be out of our control. Keep shining! Stay strong! β¨π€π₯°β€οΈπ
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Yes it's something that happened 30 years ago, not something I live through for 30 years. Youβre so right, protecting our peace is priceless, and choosing whatβs best for ourselves takes real strength. π Iβm touched by your trust and kind words, dear!
Keep shining too, and always stay strong in your heart, your wisdom and bravery inspire so much! β¨π€π₯°β€οΈ
Keep shining too, and always stay strong in your heart, your wisdom and bravery inspire so much! β¨π€π₯°β€οΈ
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My dear Sylvie π€ I'm sorry youβve had to carry this pain. .. Even though it wasnβt easy to face, thereβs so much strength in the way you chose to move through it. β€οΈ
Sending you a big, warm hug.π€π·
Sending you a big, warm hug.π€π·
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Thank you so much for your kind words, and for your support and warmth, my dear Dana, they truly meant a lot to me. π€π It really wasnβt easy, but I learned and grew through it step by step, and that made me stronger. β€οΈ
Sending you a big, warm hug right back! π€π·
Sending you a big, warm hug right back! π€π·
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π₯ IΒ΄m sorry for your pain , but I can understand you.
I feel the same way (mostly) - However, burying everything isn't a solution in the long run. You don't necessarily have to talk to others about it, but you have to work on it yourself, think it through, and turn it over in your mindβuntil everything is clear.
I feel the same way (mostly) - However, burying everything isn't a solution in the long run. You don't necessarily have to talk to others about it, but you have to work on it yourself, think it through, and turn it over in your mindβuntil everything is clear.
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Thank you so much, that really means a lot. π Youβre right, burying it isnβt really a solution. Thatβs exactly what Iβve done, though: I took the time to work through it, reflect on it, and process it quietly on my own. It wasnβt easy, but facing it this way has helped me find my own kind of peace. It's something that happened almost 30 years ago. By now it's completely over and don't hurt anymore.
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I'm so sorry you had to go through such pain. π₯ Please feel hugged!
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