Love hits us all different. Some of us grew up watching parents give 1000%, soaking our hearts in devotion. Others learned the hard way β through heartbreak, loss, or distance β that guarding your heart can feel safer than risking it. Psychology calls these patterns attachment styles : some of us crave closeness and merge, others need space to feel safe, and some find a balance in between. Thereβs no βbetterβ style, just different ways our hearts learned to survive and thrive. This isnβt about chasing βrelationship goalsβ or perfect love stories. Itβs about asking: When you truly love, how deep do you go? Do you give your ALL β time, energy, dreams, vulnerability β or do you hold sacred pieces back to protect yourself? Share your truth, no judgment, just healing through realness. Letβs see all the ways love lives in us. TASK: 1. Claim your truth: " I'm an ALL-IN lover " OR " I hold back to protect myself " OR " I'm balancedβI give deeply but keep my core safe. " 2. Root cause: Where did this come from? Family? Past love? Personality? Be honest. 3. Defining moment (specific story): Share ONE memory that shows your styleβsweet, painful, funny, whatever shaped you. 4. Current wisdom: What you know now about loving this way. ATTACHMENT: LOVE METER HAND TEST (PAPER/PEN/COLOR MEDIA) 1. TRACE YOUR LEFT HAND ON A PAPER 2. LABEL + COLOR CODE EACH FINGER (use these EXACT words): ORANGE Thumb: Tender VIOLET Index: Intense GREEN Middle: Merciful RED Ring: Resilient PINK Pinky: Passionate 3. Draw heart in palm, write inside: Your exact answer for number 1 4. Include
. - Reply here with post link to qualify. NO link / Deleted posts or comments = NO rewards. - Respect other peopleβs shares! Keep it kind and from the heart! - I read submissions one by one, and I understand those copied or rephrased entries. If this happens again, you will be blocked and will no longer be able to participate in any future activities
will host. - Closes at 10 entries . - Failure to follow any of the given rules may be subject to disqualification or deduction of rewards! VERY VERY IMPORTANT NOTES FOR THIS ACTIVITY: BASE REWARD is 300,000 MLX per participant. Duplicate entries wonβt be entertained. 1. DISQUALIFICATION Β· Posting inside the group. Β· Entries out of topic Β· NOT subscribed to
upon checking. Β· COPIED or REPHRASED entries Β· Entries from someone with more than 1 Tangled account 2. DEDUCTIONS Β· 30k - Failure to include any or all of the ff: correct tag #HowDeepILove and mentions:
Β· 30k-100k - Failure to answer the task in complete thought Β· 100k β Failure to follow the required attachment ( minor mistakes = deductions only ) 3. ALL deductions from rule-breakers will be split evenly among participants who followed every rule. In cases where the deductions are significantly larger and the participants who followed the rules do not exceed half of the capped entries, a portion of the deduction will be allocated to standout entries. Meanwhile, those who complied with the rules will also receive their share.
I am officially closing this activity as no new entries have been submitted as of today.
As we conclude the #HowDeepILove activity, I want to extend my heartfelt gratitude to each of you who participated and shared your truths. Love is a complex journey, and your willingness to open up about your experiencesβwhether they stem from deep devotion, hard lessons, or a careful balanceβhas created a beautiful tapestry of understanding and connection. I capped entries at 10, but I received only 9 submissions. Upon reviewing these entries, I found that only 4 fully adhered to all the rules and the rest incurred deductions for minor/major mistakes. If you would like to understand what went wrong and why deductions were made to you, please compare your entries against the guidelines, as I will not be providing individual feedback on each submission. 1. 300k MLX (from one unfilled spot) for following all attachment rules and submitting a well-prepared one: