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#ClosureYouAndI
When a relationship ends—whether it’s a romance, a friendship, or something you never even named—it can leave you feeling like you’re still waiting.
For an explanation.
For a goodbye.
For them to come back.
For your heart to stop aching.
Closure is the moment you stop waiting. It’s when you finally say: “This chapter is done. I see what happened. I’m choosing to move forward.”
But not everyone has experienced closure in a relationship. Some people have gotten it. Some never got it and are still healing. Some haven’t experienced a relationship ending yet. And some are still figuring out what closure means to them.
That’s okay.
This activity is for EVERYONE—whether you’ve experienced it, haven’t experienced it, or are still unsure.
You don’t need to have gone through a breakup to share your stand. You can share what you think, what you feel, what you hope, or what you believe about closure.
TASK: Copy and answer
1. When you hear the word ‘closure’ in a relationship, what’s the first thing that comes to your mind?
2. Do you think closure is needed after a relationship ends? Why or why not?
3. When do YOU think closure is MOST needed in relationships? Name a situation or moment. (You can imagine this, even if you haven’t experienced it.)
4. If you got closure in a relationship, what would it look like for you? OR If you haven’t experienced it yet, what do you hope closure feels like?
ATTACHMENT: Before and After Closure Drawing
- On a piece of paper, draw and color these simple images:
Left: dark heavy clouds ( 1 BIG, 2 small )
Right: 1 butterfly
- Bottom: “I don’t need your goodbye, explanation, or return to move forward. Closure is a gift I give myself.”
Rules & Reminders:
- Pink/Grey BADGES ( 5+ marketplace badges) only
- Be subscribed to
- Post on your timeline, not inside this group. Tag #ClosureYouAndI + mention
- Reply here with post link to qualify. NO link / Deleted posts or comments = NO rewards.
- Respect other people’s shares! Keep it kind and from the heart!
- I read submissions one by one, and I understand those copied or rephrased entries. If this happens again, you will be blocked and will no longer be able to participate in any future activities
- Closes at 10 entries .
- Failure to follow any of the given rules may be subject to disqualification or deduction of rewards!
VERY VERY IMPORTANT NOTES FOR THIS ACTIVITY:
BASE REWARD is 300,000 MLX per participant. Duplicate entries won’t be entertained.
1. DISQUALIFICATION
· Posting inside the group.
· Entries out of topic
· NOT subscribed to
· COPIED or REPHRASED entries
· Entries from someone with more than 1 Tangled account
2. DEDUCTIONS
· 30k - Failure to include any or all of the ff: correct tag #ClosureYouAndI and mentions:
· 30k- Failure to copy the exact tasks
· 30k-100k – Failure to answer in complete thought
· 100k - Failure to follow the required correct attachment ( minor mistakes = deductions only )
3. ALL deductions from rule-breakers will be split evenly among participants who followed every rule.
In cases where the deductions are significantly larger and the participants who followed the rules do not exceed half of the capped entries, a portion of the deduction will be allocated to standout entries. Meanwhile, those who complied with the rules will also receive their share.
When a relationship ends—whether it’s a romance, a friendship, or something you never even named—it can leave you feeling like you’re still waiting.
For an explanation.
For a goodbye.
For them to come back.
For your heart to stop aching.
Closure is the moment you stop waiting. It’s when you finally say: “This chapter is done. I see what happened. I’m choosing to move forward.”
But not everyone has experienced closure in a relationship. Some people have gotten it. Some never got it and are still healing. Some haven’t experienced a relationship ending yet. And some are still figuring out what closure means to them.
That’s okay.
This activity is for EVERYONE—whether you’ve experienced it, haven’t experienced it, or are still unsure.
You don’t need to have gone through a breakup to share your stand. You can share what you think, what you feel, what you hope, or what you believe about closure.
TASK: Copy and answer
1. When you hear the word ‘closure’ in a relationship, what’s the first thing that comes to your mind?
2. Do you think closure is needed after a relationship ends? Why or why not?
3. When do YOU think closure is MOST needed in relationships? Name a situation or moment. (You can imagine this, even if you haven’t experienced it.)
4. If you got closure in a relationship, what would it look like for you? OR If you haven’t experienced it yet, what do you hope closure feels like?
ATTACHMENT: Before and After Closure Drawing
- On a piece of paper, draw and color these simple images:
Left: dark heavy clouds ( 1 BIG, 2 small )
Right: 1 butterfly
- Bottom: “I don’t need your goodbye, explanation, or return to move forward. Closure is a gift I give myself.”
Rules & Reminders:
- Pink/Grey BADGES ( 5+ marketplace badges) only
- Be subscribed to
- Post on your timeline, not inside this group. Tag #ClosureYouAndI + mention
- Reply here with post link to qualify. NO link / Deleted posts or comments = NO rewards.
- Respect other people’s shares! Keep it kind and from the heart!
- I read submissions one by one, and I understand those copied or rephrased entries. If this happens again, you will be blocked and will no longer be able to participate in any future activities
- Closes at 10 entries .
- Failure to follow any of the given rules may be subject to disqualification or deduction of rewards!
VERY VERY IMPORTANT NOTES FOR THIS ACTIVITY:
BASE REWARD is 300,000 MLX per participant. Duplicate entries won’t be entertained.
1. DISQUALIFICATION
· Posting inside the group.
· Entries out of topic
· NOT subscribed to
· COPIED or REPHRASED entries
· Entries from someone with more than 1 Tangled account
2. DEDUCTIONS
· 30k - Failure to include any or all of the ff: correct tag #ClosureYouAndI and mentions:
· 30k- Failure to copy the exact tasks
· 30k-100k – Failure to answer in complete thought
· 100k - Failure to follow the required correct attachment ( minor mistakes = deductions only )
3. ALL deductions from rule-breakers will be split evenly among participants who followed every rule.
In cases where the deductions are significantly larger and the participants who followed the rules do not exceed half of the capped entries, a portion of the deduction will be allocated to standout entries. Meanwhile, those who complied with the rules will also receive their share.
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Thank you for taking the time to engage in the #ClosureYouAndI activity. Your willingness to share your thoughts and feelings about such a profound topic is truly commendable.
As we wrap up this activity, remember that closure is a personal journey, and it’s okay to be at different stages in that journey. Each perspective shared enriches our understanding and reminds us that healing takes time and reflection.
Rewards have been sent to eligible entries. I capped at 11 entries but I received 11 submissions so I will include it, the same rules applied. Unfortunately, out of the 11 reviewed submissions, only 1 followed all the guidelines; the rest incurred deductions for minor or major mistakes.
If you'd like to understand the reasons behind your deductions and where you went wrong, I encourage you to compare your entries with my guidelines. I won't be addressing each mistake individually at this time, as the same issues tend to recur.
Deductions stemmed from the following:
1. Tasks not copied completely; answered in incomplete thought; copied/rephrased another participant’s answer
2. Attachment mistakes – any difference in attachment incurred deductions
ATTACHMENT: Before and After Closure Drawing
- On a piece of paper, draw and color these simple images:
Left: dark heavy clouds ( 1 BIG, 2 small )
Right: 1 butterfly
- Bottom: “I don’t need your goodbye, explanation, or return to move forward. Closure is a gift I give myself.”
The 430k mlx remaining from overall deductions will be distributed as follows:
1. 230k mlx –
2. 100k mlx each (200k) –
TOTAL PAYOUT: 3,000,000 MLX
As we wrap up this activity, remember that closure is a personal journey, and it’s okay to be at different stages in that journey. Each perspective shared enriches our understanding and reminds us that healing takes time and reflection.
Rewards have been sent to eligible entries. I capped at 11 entries but I received 11 submissions so I will include it, the same rules applied. Unfortunately, out of the 11 reviewed submissions, only 1 followed all the guidelines; the rest incurred deductions for minor or major mistakes.
If you'd like to understand the reasons behind your deductions and where you went wrong, I encourage you to compare your entries with my guidelines. I won't be addressing each mistake individually at this time, as the same issues tend to recur.
Deductions stemmed from the following:
1. Tasks not copied completely; answered in incomplete thought; copied/rephrased another participant’s answer
2. Attachment mistakes – any difference in attachment incurred deductions
ATTACHMENT: Before and After Closure Drawing
- On a piece of paper, draw and color these simple images:
Left: dark heavy clouds ( 1 BIG, 2 small )
Right: 1 butterfly
- Bottom: “I don’t need your goodbye, explanation, or return to move forward. Closure is a gift I give myself.”
The 430k mlx remaining from overall deductions will be distributed as follows:
1. 230k mlx –
2. 100k mlx each (200k) –
TOTAL PAYOUT: 3,000,000 MLX
ACTIVITY CLOSED! No longer accepting submissions as capped entries are all filled.
