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#wellbeing #multilanguage #genderburden
The #familymatter #earn #activity is officially closed with total 11 participations.
with 06 eligible entries:
the other 05 participants were unfortunately excluded
Reasons ;
missed the context , didn't follow the rules of the activity and didn't respond to my assistance on their posts and to
https://tangled.com/c/b8ad3bae310388c89172eed615318d9b5ed6496fe
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As announced, earnings from reactions and comments (other than entries) will be added to reserved #MLX .
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- 18 reaction (including from
thank you for you #support 🥰
4.666 MLX will be added to every entry reward. Every eligible participant got .... 154.666 MLX + 30 k extra gift
total rewards = 1.107.966 MLX
Congrats and thank you for your participation and honesty 🤝
i hope you achieve what you are looking for soon 😍
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The #familymatter #earn #activity is officially closed with total 11 participations.
with 06 eligible entries:
the other 05 participants were unfortunately excluded
Reasons ;
missed the context , didn't follow the rules of the activity and didn't respond to my assistance on their posts and to
https://tangled.com/c/b8ad3bae310388c89172eed615318d9b5ed6496fe
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As announced, earnings from reactions and comments (other than entries) will be added to reserved #MLX .
- 02 x comments from
- 18 reaction (including from
thank you for you #support 🥰
4.666 MLX will be added to every entry reward. Every eligible participant got .... 154.666 MLX + 30 k extra gift
total rewards = 1.107.966 MLX
Congrats and thank you for your participation and honesty 🤝
i hope you achieve what you are looking for soon 😍
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Happy Friday
Thanks
#earn
#genderburden
#support
#solution
#familymatter
#wellbeing
⚠️ LONG POST, please bear with me🫢😉😬✌️
The change I wish to implement in my family is not related to the "gender burden" I shared recently. Rather, it is the desire to eliminate the jealousy among our children regarding who is favored and who is not.
"Fairness" doesn't always mean "equal treatment," but rather "giving each child what they specifically need.
In truth, parents do not actually have favorites among their offspring. We have three children: two daughters followed by a son. Our eldest daughter constantly mentions that she feels ignored and believes her younger siblings are our favorites.
Perhaps the root of this jealousy is that she grew up very independent. From the time she was born until she was six years old, she was left in the care of a nanny because my husband and I were both busy working and building our livelihood. In 2017, I resigned as a public school teacher under DepEd to focus solely on the three of them. That was when she started saying that her younger siblings are lucky because they are guided and assisted in their studies, while she is left to "grind" on her own.
No matter how much we explain that the reason we let her study without help is that she is highly capable—not to brag, but she truly is very smart and consistently receives Academic Excellence awards every year—she still feels slighted. In contrast, her younger sister is a "late bloomer" who truly needs guidance to keep up academically. Notably, as a toddler, the second daughter had a speech problem, whereas the eldest was already reading better than my Grade 2 students at the young age of three.
Fast forward to today: as a full-time stay-at-home mom, I personally drop them off and pick them up from school. Because we want them to excel, we implemented a reward system for their school achievements. This is where the academic gap becomes visible; the middle child often falls behind and gets no reward, while the eldest always gets a full reward without any assistance. Meanwhile, the youngest also gets a full reward, but with my personal assistance.
As a former teacher, I know that foundational skills must be incorporated during the early years so they can use them later in life. That was truly the reason I left the service—to focus on my kids. We deeply desire to eliminate sibling rivalry and jealousy because, like every parent, we want our children to get along and help one another in all things.
Our solution to this family matter involves constant and intensive heart-to-heart talks with the children and giving them equal responsibilities in household chores.
Above all, ceaseless prayer for one another.
Nothing is impossible if we surrender it to the Lord. "God-fidence" is knowing that we can’t, but He will. Remember, not a single leaf moves without His will.
Thanks
#earn
#genderburden
#support
#solution
#familymatter
#wellbeing
⚠️ LONG POST, please bear with me🫢😉😬✌️
The change I wish to implement in my family is not related to the "gender burden" I shared recently. Rather, it is the desire to eliminate the jealousy among our children regarding who is favored and who is not.
"Fairness" doesn't always mean "equal treatment," but rather "giving each child what they specifically need.
In truth, parents do not actually have favorites among their offspring. We have three children: two daughters followed by a son. Our eldest daughter constantly mentions that she feels ignored and believes her younger siblings are our favorites.
Perhaps the root of this jealousy is that she grew up very independent. From the time she was born until she was six years old, she was left in the care of a nanny because my husband and I were both busy working and building our livelihood. In 2017, I resigned as a public school teacher under DepEd to focus solely on the three of them. That was when she started saying that her younger siblings are lucky because they are guided and assisted in their studies, while she is left to "grind" on her own.
No matter how much we explain that the reason we let her study without help is that she is highly capable—not to brag, but she truly is very smart and consistently receives Academic Excellence awards every year—she still feels slighted. In contrast, her younger sister is a "late bloomer" who truly needs guidance to keep up academically. Notably, as a toddler, the second daughter had a speech problem, whereas the eldest was already reading better than my Grade 2 students at the young age of three.
Fast forward to today: as a full-time stay-at-home mom, I personally drop them off and pick them up from school. Because we want them to excel, we implemented a reward system for their school achievements. This is where the academic gap becomes visible; the middle child often falls behind and gets no reward, while the eldest always gets a full reward without any assistance. Meanwhile, the youngest also gets a full reward, but with my personal assistance.
As a former teacher, I know that foundational skills must be incorporated during the early years so they can use them later in life. That was truly the reason I left the service—to focus on my kids. We deeply desire to eliminate sibling rivalry and jealousy because, like every parent, we want our children to get along and help one another in all things.
Our solution to this family matter involves constant and intensive heart-to-heart talks with the children and giving them equal responsibilities in household chores.
Above all, ceaseless prayer for one another.
Nothing is impossible if we surrender it to the Lord. "God-fidence" is knowing that we can’t, but He will. Remember, not a single leaf moves without His will.
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