#earn activity Someone hurt you. They wronged you. Now what? Do you forgive them — acknowledge the hurt, choose to release the anger, still remember but let them off the debt? Or do you forget them — don’t dwell on it, let it fade naturally, move forward without carrying the weight? This activity asks you to choose: When someone wrongs you, will you have a forgiving heart or a forgetful heart? Neither is better. Both heal. Both are valid. But which one are YOU? TASK: Copy and answer 1. When someone wrongs you deeply ( like betrayal, lying, or cheating ), do you feel drawn to FORGIVE ( actively release it ) or FORGET ( let it fade )? What’s your gut reaction? 2. Think of a time someone hurt you. Did you end up forgiving them OR forgetting it? What happened? Did it heal you? 3. What’s ONE thing you believe you SHOULD forgive but actually can’t forget? Explain. 4. What’s ONE thing you SHOULD forget but can’t forgive? Explain. ATTACHMENT: Two Doors, One Choice -On a piece of paper, draw 2 doors side by side BLUE Left Door: FORGIVE RED Right Door: FORGET -Below 2 doors, draw a square, write “My path” inside -Draw an arrow from each door to that square -Encircle the door of your choice -Bottom: “ Hurt came, I chose, and my heart heals my way. ”
. - Reply here with post link to qualify. NO link / Deleted posts or comments = NO rewards. - Respect other people’s shares! Keep it kind and from the heart! - I read submissions one by one, and I understand those copied or rephrased entries. If this happens again, you will be blocked and will no longer be able to participate in any future activities
will host. - Closes at 10 entries . - Failure to follow any of the given rules may be subject to disqualification or deduction of rewards! VERY VERY IMPORTANT NOTES FOR THIS ACTIVITY: BASE REWARD is 300,000 MLX per participant. Duplicate entries won’t be entertained. 1. DISQUALIFICATION · Posting inside the group. · Entries out of topic · NOT subscribed to
upon checking. · COPIED or REPHRASED entries · Entries from someone with more than 1 Tangled account 2. DEDUCTIONS · 30k - Failure to include any or all of the ff: correct tag #HeartAfterHurt and mentions:
· 30k- Failure to copy the exact tasks · 30k-100k – Failure to answer in complete thought · 150k - Failure to follow the required correct attachment ( minor mistakes = deductions only ) 3. ALL deductions from rule-breakers will be split evenly among participants who followed every rule. In cases where the deductions are significantly larger and the participants who followed the rules do not exceed half of the capped entries, a portion of the deduction will be allocated to standout entries or well-prepared attachment. Meanwhile, those who complied with the rules will also receive their share.
Thank you all for participating in the #HeartOverHurt activity! Your willingness to share your experiences and insights about forgiveness and letting go has created a powerful space for reflection and healing. As we close this activity, I encourage you to continue exploring these themes in your life. Whether you lean towards forgiveness or forgetting, honor your feelings and give yourself the grace to heal at your own pace. Healing is a journey, and every step you take is a testament to your strength and resilience. Rewards have been sent to eligible entries. I capped at 10 entries but I received 11 submissions so I will include it, the same rules applied. Unfortunately, out of the 11 reviewed submissions, ONLY ONE followed the rules perfectly and the rest incurred deductions for minor and major mistakes. If you'd like to understand the reasons behind your deductions and where you went wrong, I encourage you to compare your entries with my guidelines. I won't be addressing each mistake individually at this time, as the same issues tend to recur. Deductions stemmed from the following: 1. Tasks not copied completely 2. Tag and mention mistake: Tag #HeartAfterHurt + mention
3. TOO MANY TO MENTION ATTACHMENT MISTAKES; any difference in attachment incurred deductions ATTACHMENT: Two Doors, One Choice -On a piece of paper, draw 2 doors side by side BLUE Left Door: FORGIVE RED Right Door: FORGET -Below 2 doors, draw a square, write “My path” inside -Draw an arrow from each door to that square -Encircle the door of your choice -Bottom: “ Hurt came, I chose, and my heart heals my way. ”