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#SiblingRivalry
Sibling rivalry is that mix of love, competition, and tension that often shows up between brothers and sisters who grow up together. It can look like fighting over attention, comparing grades or looks, or always feeling like you’re being measured against each other. But it’s not just about kids—it also shapes how parents show up, how they handle conflict, and how the whole family system learns to relate.
This activity is about exploring what “sibling rivalry” means to you, whether you experienced it as a child, see it in your own kids, or never really felt it at all. You can reflect on how rivalry, comparison, and closeness shaped your past or how you’re guiding it in the present.
TASK : Copy and answer the questions.
1. Are you writing from the perspective of a child who had (or has) sibling rivalry, or from the perspective of a parent watching your kids experience it?
- If you were a child, briefly describe your sibling (or someone sibling‑like) and the vibe between you (close, competitive, distant).
- If you’re a parent, briefly describe your kids and how their rivalry usually shows up (arguing, comparing, jealousy, or mostly peaceful).
2. What’s your earliest memory (or your child’s most common pattern) involving rivalry or strong comparison in the family?
- If you were a kid, was it about attention, toys, grades, or looks?
- If you’re a parent, what usually triggers the rivalry between your kids (toys, praise, time with you, etc.)?
3. Is there still rivalry or comparison happening now—and how does it feel?
- If you’re reflecting on your own past, has it changed into something healthier, or still feels raw?
- If you’re a parent, how often does it happen and how do you feel about it?
4. What positive things did (or might) this rivalry teach you or your children about themselves?
- For example: Learning to handle jealousy, Learning to speak up for themselves, Learning to share space and boundaries.
- If rivalry feels mostly negative, you can say what’s hard about it.
5. What’s one thing you wish could be different about how this rivalry shows up?
- As a child or adult, what would make it kinder or fairer for you or your sibling?
- As a parent, what would you like to change in how your kids fight, argue, or relate?
6. If you could talk to your younger self or your younger children during a tough rivalry moment, what would you say to them?
Even if you never had siblings or your kids don’t really fight, you can still answer based on how you relate to competition, comparison, or closeness in your life or in your family. This is about your experience, not about fitting into a “perfect sibling story.”
ATTACHMENT: Paper and Pen
1. Create a mini–Rivalry Dictionary with at least 3 words about:
- A sibling
- A sibling‑like person (like a cousin, close friend, or classmate)
- Or if you’re a parent, about your kids’ rivalry (as a dynamic you observe)
2. For each word, write a short definition in your own words.
Examples ( don’t copy ):
- Jealousy: when I wanted what they had.
- Comparison: when I constantly measured myself against them.
- Protective: when I wanted to defend them even while we were fighting.
3. On top , write: Rivalry Dictionary
At the bottom , write:
Rules & Reminders:
- Pink/Grey BADGES ( 5+ marketplace badges) only
- Be subscribed to
- Post on your timeline, not inside this group. Tag #SiblingRivalry + mention
- Reply here with post link to qualify. NO link / Deleted posts or comments = NO rewards.
- Respect other people’s shares! Keep it kind and from the heart!
- I read submissions one by one, and I understand those copied or rephrased entries. If this happens again, you will be blocked and will no longer be able to participate in any future activities
- Closes at 10 entries .
- Failure to follow any of the given rules may be subject to disqualification or deduction of rewards!
VERY VERY IMPORTANT NOTES FOR THIS ACTIVITY:
BASE REWARD is 300,000 MLX per participant. Duplicate entries won’t be entertained.
1. DISQUALIFICATION
· Posting inside the group.
· Entries out of topic
· NOT subscribed to
· COPIED or REPHRASED entries
· Entries from someone with more than 1 Tangled account
2. DEDUCTIONS
· 30k - Failure to include any or all of the ff: correct tags #SiblingRivalry and mentions:
· 30k-100k - Failure to explain in complete thought
· 30k – Failure to copy the given questions
· 100k – Failure to follow the required attachment ( minor mistakes = deductions only )
3. ALL deductions from rule-breakers will be split evenly among participants who followed every rule.
In cases where the deductions are significantly larger and the participants who followed the rules do not exceed half of the capped entries, a portion of the deduction will be allocated to standout entries. Meanwhile, those who complied with the rules will also receive their share.
Sibling rivalry is that mix of love, competition, and tension that often shows up between brothers and sisters who grow up together. It can look like fighting over attention, comparing grades or looks, or always feeling like you’re being measured against each other. But it’s not just about kids—it also shapes how parents show up, how they handle conflict, and how the whole family system learns to relate.
This activity is about exploring what “sibling rivalry” means to you, whether you experienced it as a child, see it in your own kids, or never really felt it at all. You can reflect on how rivalry, comparison, and closeness shaped your past or how you’re guiding it in the present.
TASK : Copy and answer the questions.
1. Are you writing from the perspective of a child who had (or has) sibling rivalry, or from the perspective of a parent watching your kids experience it?
- If you were a child, briefly describe your sibling (or someone sibling‑like) and the vibe between you (close, competitive, distant).
- If you’re a parent, briefly describe your kids and how their rivalry usually shows up (arguing, comparing, jealousy, or mostly peaceful).
2. What’s your earliest memory (or your child’s most common pattern) involving rivalry or strong comparison in the family?
- If you were a kid, was it about attention, toys, grades, or looks?
- If you’re a parent, what usually triggers the rivalry between your kids (toys, praise, time with you, etc.)?
3. Is there still rivalry or comparison happening now—and how does it feel?
- If you’re reflecting on your own past, has it changed into something healthier, or still feels raw?
- If you’re a parent, how often does it happen and how do you feel about it?
4. What positive things did (or might) this rivalry teach you or your children about themselves?
- For example: Learning to handle jealousy, Learning to speak up for themselves, Learning to share space and boundaries.
- If rivalry feels mostly negative, you can say what’s hard about it.
5. What’s one thing you wish could be different about how this rivalry shows up?
- As a child or adult, what would make it kinder or fairer for you or your sibling?
- As a parent, what would you like to change in how your kids fight, argue, or relate?
6. If you could talk to your younger self or your younger children during a tough rivalry moment, what would you say to them?
Even if you never had siblings or your kids don’t really fight, you can still answer based on how you relate to competition, comparison, or closeness in your life or in your family. This is about your experience, not about fitting into a “perfect sibling story.”
ATTACHMENT: Paper and Pen
1. Create a mini–Rivalry Dictionary with at least 3 words about:
- A sibling
- A sibling‑like person (like a cousin, close friend, or classmate)
- Or if you’re a parent, about your kids’ rivalry (as a dynamic you observe)
2. For each word, write a short definition in your own words.
Examples ( don’t copy ):
- Jealousy: when I wanted what they had.
- Comparison: when I constantly measured myself against them.
- Protective: when I wanted to defend them even while we were fighting.
3. On top , write: Rivalry Dictionary
At the bottom , write:
Rules & Reminders:
- Pink/Grey BADGES ( 5+ marketplace badges) only
- Be subscribed to
- Post on your timeline, not inside this group. Tag #SiblingRivalry + mention
- Reply here with post link to qualify. NO link / Deleted posts or comments = NO rewards.
- Respect other people’s shares! Keep it kind and from the heart!
- I read submissions one by one, and I understand those copied or rephrased entries. If this happens again, you will be blocked and will no longer be able to participate in any future activities
- Closes at 10 entries .
- Failure to follow any of the given rules may be subject to disqualification or deduction of rewards!
VERY VERY IMPORTANT NOTES FOR THIS ACTIVITY:
BASE REWARD is 300,000 MLX per participant. Duplicate entries won’t be entertained.
1. DISQUALIFICATION
· Posting inside the group.
· Entries out of topic
· NOT subscribed to
· COPIED or REPHRASED entries
· Entries from someone with more than 1 Tangled account
2. DEDUCTIONS
· 30k - Failure to include any or all of the ff: correct tags #SiblingRivalry and mentions:
· 30k-100k - Failure to explain in complete thought
· 30k – Failure to copy the given questions
· 100k – Failure to follow the required attachment ( minor mistakes = deductions only )
3. ALL deductions from rule-breakers will be split evenly among participants who followed every rule.
In cases where the deductions are significantly larger and the participants who followed the rules do not exceed half of the capped entries, a portion of the deduction will be allocated to standout entries. Meanwhile, those who complied with the rules will also receive their share.
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Thank you all for participating in this #SiblingRivalry activity!
As we wrap up this activity, remember that sibling rivalry can teach us valuable lessons about ourselves and our relationships. It’s a journey of growth, understanding, and connection that shapes not only how we relate to our siblings but also how we navigate our own identities.
I have already sent rewards to eligible participants. Out of the 10 capped entries, I received 11, I will consider the 11th and apply the same rules. Of the 11 reviewed entries, only 4 adhered perfectly to the guidelines, while the remaining 7 incurred deductions for minor/major mistakes. Here’s the breakdown:
• Total deductions amounted to 360k mlx.
• 180k mlx (50%) = 45k mlx each to
• 180k mlx (50%) = 45k mlx among
I won’t be addressing individual mistakes as a reply to your comments. If you have concerns regarding your rewards, I encourage you to take some time to review your entries against my guidelines.
Deductions were primarily due to:
1. Questions/Tasks: Questions/Tasks not copied or just rephrased; Failure to answer in complete thought
2. Attachment mistakes: Wrong hashtag “#SiblingRivalry”, Wrong title “Rivalry Dictionary”; Just copying all my word examples: Jealousy, Comparison, Protective
TOTAL PAYOUT: 3,300,000 MLX
As we wrap up this activity, remember that sibling rivalry can teach us valuable lessons about ourselves and our relationships. It’s a journey of growth, understanding, and connection that shapes not only how we relate to our siblings but also how we navigate our own identities.
I have already sent rewards to eligible participants. Out of the 10 capped entries, I received 11, I will consider the 11th and apply the same rules. Of the 11 reviewed entries, only 4 adhered perfectly to the guidelines, while the remaining 7 incurred deductions for minor/major mistakes. Here’s the breakdown:
• Total deductions amounted to 360k mlx.
• 180k mlx (50%) = 45k mlx each to
• 180k mlx (50%) = 45k mlx among
I won’t be addressing individual mistakes as a reply to your comments. If you have concerns regarding your rewards, I encourage you to take some time to review your entries against my guidelines.
Deductions were primarily due to:
1. Questions/Tasks: Questions/Tasks not copied or just rephrased; Failure to answer in complete thought
2. Attachment mistakes: Wrong hashtag “#SiblingRivalry”, Wrong title “Rivalry Dictionary”; Just copying all my word examples: Jealousy, Comparison, Protective
TOTAL PAYOUT: 3,300,000 MLX
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ACTIVITY CLOSED! No longer accepting submissions as the capped entries has been filled and slightly exceeded.
Attachment: Should be Rivalry NOT "Rivarly"
Yours: "Rivarly Dictionary" and "#SiblingRivarly"
Yours: "Rivarly Dictionary" and "#SiblingRivarly"
